@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:51

Singles, we may have already met the one.

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No hot girl summers are necessary for you to identify and attract the love of your life. You don't have to go through that. But we're led to believe in this modern society that as women we need to be sexually liberated and that we need to have these experiences before getting married, which is so nontraditional, of course

#single #dating #relationships #love

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@Scribe7
Mike W
@Scribe7 · 5:00
And it gets to a point when you get to an age where it's like, it ain't even about being in a relationship. It's about if I find a person right now, it depends on how long I live, I can still get 30 years in. You understand what I'm saying? So that's how trivial that can be
@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:59
I have met a couple of the ones to be real with you. But I remember when my first love, right? I remember I thought I was never going to find someone like her. I was in high school, right? I was in high school feeling this way. I was crying, blowing her up, asking for another chance. But guess what? I ended up finding another girl that was the love of my life. And guess what?
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:22

@FryedOreo

Whether we call them husband, whether we call them boyfriend, whether we call them special friend, whatever we call them, we want our person. And so I think what happens sometimes is I'm not saying that if you met the one, so to speak, and things didn't work out, that you may not have another shot. I'm sorry, I'm talking fast. You may not have another shot. I didn't say that
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:19

@Scribe7

We just have to do the work to make sure we are the best version of ourselves that we can be, so that when we do meet that special person, they can see our character, they can see our attributes, they can see what we can add to their life and how we can complement their life. So those things are very important. I think sometimes we get so consumed with trying to find that person that we're not really working on ourselves
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:51
And this, to me, this post, I can tell it's like motivational speaking for single people where, hey, maybe we already found our one and it's a really good hook because it's like, what? What you mean I've already found it? And it's like, well, of course you can find someone else, right? And sometimes it's not your fault. You could have lost the one because they cheated, right?
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@DearAuntyAng
Ann-Gela Kaye
@DearAuntyAng · 3:01
At least if they haven't met someone, they've met someone that they could have made it, worked out with it. And maybe the things that they dismissed about that person could have been worked out
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 0:56

@DearAuntyAng

Yes, I agree with all of your points wholeheartedly. Everything you said, I agree with, I agree with. Yes, we hear about that one. That they still kind of carry a torch for all the way through life, even though, like you said, they married someone else, they have a family with someone else, but there's always that one that they never met anyone like that before, and they don't think they'll ever meet any one like that again
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@Scribe7
Mike W
@Scribe7 · 5:00
So when I look at that phone, I know what I'm getting myself into right in the video. But by the same token, when I hear maybe, or I could have already met the one, something comes behind that for me that says, is it I could have or I should have. You know what I mean? Because if I should have, then it's possible I might have met them
@geo_rhymes
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 2:05

@MsColes77 this was amazing! 💯❤️

Wow, that was something insightful backed with a lot of experience. And I have to say I really enjoyed listening to that one. And a lot of the points that you've mentioned, it makes sense when you look at it from a logical and rational perspective. But I also think that the only reason or the only way someone can arrive at that is only once they've gone through the whole spiel, the experience themselves, right?
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@KINGPOPOFLA
DAYDAY Mcclenton
@KINGPOPOFLA · 2:34
It's a trip because I was going through like a bad time at that point, you know what I'm saying? To where everything that I sad I didn't know that it was about to vanish and when it did I was like down on my luck and I end up staying in this woman's house. Make a long story short, love do come around again. That story is for another day and another time. I'll probably get into that
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@NeophyteSavant
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:58

@MsColes77

It's. Good morning, Tanya. Well, singles may have already met the one. Well, that might be true. Then again, it might not be true. That's why I'm glad that you said may have. When it comes to these type of topics, first of all, we all come with some really good topics, really interesting, very important topics
@No_Manuals
Sean Cleveland
@No_Manuals · 4:49

#love #relationships #blacklove

A lot of people experience things and go through things, but if you do not learn from those things, especially relationship wise, and there is no growth, you do want to repeat those things, and there will be no change. And as we get older, yes, the relationship pool shrinks. But I think it's also in part because we change how we look for people. If you want to meet someone, a certain type of someone, you have to go where those people are
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@TheEyeinyou
Goddess Mia
@TheEyeinyou · 4:22
I think I will be complicated today because it's going to take a very unique individual to give me those butterflies because God bless me with understanding like no other. And it's just like people always say, I can't believe he's single. Yes. Because I only can date a king. I only can date a king. I'm only available to that. And there are so I came across some people who have gave me that, but I still didn't want a relationship
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