Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:33
#AskSwell Passport Bros: Would you travel overseas to find love?
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Would you be willing to go to central America, south America, Asia, Europe, Africa. Would you be willing to go to any of these places to find love? And even more so, would you be willing to move to another country in order to find love? Would you be willing to live in a place like Vietnam? Would you be willing to live in a place like Thailand or somewhere like that if you believed that you would have a better chance at romance?
Arthur Benitez
@Arthur_Dante · 3:27
Here in America or in Europe, where we tend to have different ways of thinking or even ways of speaking, because, well, we just grew different. Well, it is a very extensive issue to discuss. But I would also like to say that when talking about having match with another person, we have to take into consideration that there is not such a thing as a perfect match. It is just almost impossible that all that you are searching for will be just as you thought in another person
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:56
And I don't find anything so right with the woman outside of this country. Whereas though I feel as though it's best to go outside the country to find the right woman or soul mate or whatever. In fact, most of the relationships that I've been in, when things didn't go right, it was mainly because of me
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Ann-Gela Kaye
@DearAuntyAng · 2:34
When someone goes on a weekend on a boys trip, they're just going to drop their seed and bounce and that's it. And so all of this trying to find love, they ain't trying to find love. And if they think they are, a lot of them coming home with their wallet stripped because they're going to get this traditional woman that's going to bow down and sweep the floor for them
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:43
We have our issues that are just universal with every woman. So it's not about whether she's from America, whether she's from Brazil, whether she's from Tanzania, wherever she's from. All of us women, yes, we may have a different set of values and traditions and morals depending on our culture, but we are women at the end of the day, we are emotional beings, and we have the same life view on certain things because we are women
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:34
But I go to these other countries and in these other cultures, and these women accept me just as I am. So, I mean, that's very possible. That's very possible. But to think that American women alone are the problem, no, it could be you. It could be your standards. It could be your outlook on dating. It could be your view on women. It could be how you grew up and how you were taught to approach relationships or not taught at all
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:14
So that's really the only things that have changed. And a lot of these men, they're lying about the success they're having in these other countries. They are pairing up with sex workers and other women and acting like these are romances, and they're not. You just paid a sex worker for sex. Like some people say, it's sex tourism. That's what they call it. When people travel to different countries just to have sex with women in different cultures
The reason why they are with those people is because they love them. And that is the key. If we cannot have a conversation about love, don't tell me about dating. If we can't have a conversation about love, don't tell me about submission. If we can't have a conversation about love, don't tell me about finding love outside or passporting to another country
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:37
And some of them were successful in finding wives and starting families with women they met in places like Africa or Asian countries, places like that. They were very successful in doing so. And so I'm like you. I totally agree that if you want to find love overseas, that's fine
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