So it's something that I'm really trying to learn how to balance it out and figure out the best way to come at people where they can see the good intentions, even if I am coming off as a little bit over the top. So if that's anything that you've struggled with too, let me know. If you have any funny experiences, if you you've had anything that's really worked for you, I would love to hear it
And so it came out of not the chitchat personal stories, but it came out of the depth of conversations. And it's almost like those are the kinds of people that I get along with best, right? And so it sort of happens more organically, I say that, but I'm still like hesitant of am I reading this person correctly? Are we on similar wavelengths with respect to communication? Are they getting me? Am I getting them? How much of a challenge is this going to be?
I have, as you know, my good friend lives in your state, Ohio, and I live in California. Lordy, Lord. So, yes, I am on social media all the time with her. And even with her, as close as we are, there are days I just seriously want to pull out my hair from work, and there's things going on I just don't want to, and I crawl into my shell, right?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Kayla Danford
@MissKaylaSue · 1:56
Do I think they were happy with what I was telling them? Do I think they like me? Do they not? So on, so forth, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. Really do wish I was one of those people who could have a conversation just for the sake of having a conversation and leave it at that. I know you said you have your background in acting. I do a lot of customer service and food service
There is so much data coming in at any given point and that means there is so much to process. We're talking like for me, all of my senses and all of that data is coming in. And it's not like a listics who have these dialed up or dialed down aspects of being able to sort of zoom in and zoom out on what they're hearing or sensing or feeling. But it's like coming at me all at once. So that's happening
Kayla Danford
@MissKaylaSue · 4:09
People think it's funny, they laugh, but not always the best persona to bring out, especially when you're meeting somebody new who might not be from that background, even though you think you're being funny, you can't really read if that's coming across as funny or not to them
Kayla Danford
@MissKaylaSue · 1:45
It. Yes, that totally makes sense, the way that you put that. It's just another thing that has been a struggle for me of feeling like I have to respond to everything and put myself out in those situations, even if I don't necessarily feel comfortable because I was always afraid is coming across as rude if I didn't
