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I had both at the same time, but the loss much worse than anything I can imagine. What is getting back to normal? What is going back? And should we go back? Like, if you suffer a divorce or a death, or do you go back to where you were, is that the best thing for you? Or should you look at it as starting a new? And how do you start a new after a loss or death?
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@FryedOreo · 3:25
And we know that not some people don't, some people don't, some people that's it for them, the loss of a loved one, tragic event in their life is all evidence they need that they're done with the suffering. And I feel sadly, the suffering is what we need to be better people. If we had no suffering, we would not know what the point of being good was, we would not know the point of happiness. We would simply just be so suffering
And imagine the walls caving in on you at the time that someone you love is dying in your face. So I learned that death is part of the process. It's not really death, it's rebirth. And I don't know if anyone can understand that, but definitely rebirth. So getting back to normal, you'll never be the same person. You are new and improved. You are aware now again, welcome back
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@Swell · 0:15
We just go and try to make the best of it. I do believe that there are signs after someone is lost as well. And I have gotten a couple of those which made me feel a sense of peace and I knew exactly what it was when it happened, believe it or not. And I know people may question that, but I knew exactly what it was and who it was and I felt a sense of peace and I'm moving on from there
Now we get back to paying bills, we get back to going to the job, we get back to being friendly to people, but there's a part of you that's gone, and it's different, and you're different. And that's why for me, right now, being newly divorced for the last few years, I think about my daughter and I think about my brother. I just lost. And I'm telling you, I can live without someone
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