@Manjusree21
Manjusree Guha
@Manjusree21 · 4:56

Dating woes

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Sure, I have liked guys post that I have been with them even though in a group, but I have always refrained myself from going out with a guy, just the two of us, having a heart to heart talk. Because let's just face it, I was way too scared to be with them. To put myself in a position where I could be judged, I could be rejected, I could be hurt

#dating #dateshate #32woesofmylife #elderlyprimiproblems

@Manjusree21
Manjusree Guha
@Manjusree21 · 2:32
Pretty much broke because as against what the general people have or do think I mean we doctors initially don't make that money, so much of money. There's like a longer study period and a bit of struggle on the initial few years. In medical profession we do have a term called as elderly primary gravita. So that is actually when a woman who is 30 years or above she becomes pregnant, that is actually a high risk pregnant and they are called as elderly primigravida
@Aishani
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 2:20
Hello. Jewish dating can definitely be a very challenging process in today's day and age. You know, setting up that, setting up your mind, going out there and meeting the right people. The entire process can be full of ups and downs, highs and lows, especially if you've had a really bad experience in the past from the same then it becomes all the more it becomes all the more charged the entire process
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@kavitaseth22
Kavita B
@kavitaseth22 · 0:44
Yes, dear, I totally agree what you said once you just know how to love yourself, then you will teach others to love you. How now, how precious your love is for yourself and for others. And what's the definition of love for you? It should not be love, and it should not be for just loving any person for any purpose. Purpose? You have definitely said. Very well. I agree with you. Thank you
@LG90
LG -
@LG90 · 5:00

@Manjusree21

But a friend of mine kept egging me onto it because she was like, it's going to give you a lot of self confidence and there are a lot of people and a lot of guys are going to just fall all over you and just that in itself is going to give you an esteem boost. So you should do it. I did it. I matched with this wonderful actor and we went out on a date. And before that we were chatting it up and we were very similar
@geo_rhymes
Nidhin George 🔷
@geo_rhymes · 3:06

Bravo! This topic doesn't get the attention it deserves. #wereinittogether #dating #single #32andsingle

Then again, being human also means that you crave companionship and understanding and togetherness, for lack of a better word, the paradoxical world we live in. And the only answer that I've been able to come up with so far is that you attract what you think about. And sometimes we think and act from a point of desperation on these apps. Desperate for a partner, desperate for a relationship. I've been told to substitute desperation with abundance
@LG90
LG -
@LG90 · 3:36

@geo_rhymes

Those are the only married people I know. And I know people who divorce used to be something that used to happen to an actress on TV. But now it is something that's very close to my inner circle. In fact, I know people who are married and divorced and they haven't even hit 30 yet. So it's much better to be single and take things slow and sort yourself out and learn how to emotionally self regulate than to be in a situation like that
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