@Manalika
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 4:44

The trauma cycle

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So do let me know if you guys have experienced these kinds of things or your parents have demotivated you or anything has happened in your life or you have seen your friends being demotivated by their parents or anything. I would love to hear about about these kind of stories because even I want to know to what extent these kind of traumas lead to a person thank you so much for listening to my swell and I hope we can have very insightful conversations based on this. Thank you. Bye

#sayitonswell #parenting

@pradeepmalar
Pradeep Malarvannan
@pradeepmalar · 4:43
I don't know why. Maybe I'm a hypocrite. I don't know. But anyways, problem is not me. It's my dad. He wants him to score 95%. I would straight up say it's nearly impossible. I'm not saying my brother doesn't study. He studied way better than I do. I'll agree with that. But still 95% my brother, I don't think he will. It's not like he can. I don't think he will
@Anastasia_9
Divya Bhatia
@Anastasia_9 · 2:04

@Manalika #collegevoiceindia #sayitonswell #motivation

If their parents are saying anything, they should not take it too hard. I never took anything my mother said to her. I was a prepared. I was always happy. So what I think is that children shouldn't take anything to their heart so they won't be in trauma or attention. You
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@yeswithyashi
yashasvi Gupta
@yeswithyashi · 0:56
According to me, Versace play. Same goes with children. They say parents play a very major role. Home is the first goal of every child. Our parents will be motivated. It showed the reality
@Manalika
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 2:36

#sayitonswell @pradeepmalar

Yes exactly. I do understand your point. Even I am someone who really wants to support really good marks and even I am someone who wants to secure first position whenever I give an exam. But my parents never forced me to secure first position said to me that you have to score this or else you won't get this or get that. It was my own inner ideas or inner choice to do well and I really wanted to set up good marks for myself at first so it was my choice
@Manalika
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:59

#sayitonswell

So yeah, all these factors will definitely play while you have a conversation with someone. And yeah, I'm so glad that you found my interesting and gave an insightful opinion regarding it. Thank you so much
@Manalika
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:02

#sayitonswell @yeswithyashi

On the other hand, he would be like situation where they might go into depression, especially during the teen years or three teen years. And it's very important to think about these kinds of stuff because in the future, it might really be very damaging for them. So, yeah. Thank you so much for your insightful conversation. And I would love to have conversations like this in the future as well. Thank you
@bipashaa
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:32
Hi, I'm Nadka. Trauma cycle is a cycle of abuse. And breaking that cycle is very important. And trauma can literally make us do, you know, consuming alcohol and drugs. And we can be in two different depression, too. And taking that cycle is really an important task we should focus on. And first we need to acknowledge our trauma, and then we try to solve it. I really like it. Well, then I'm really looking forward for your new trip
@Pooh
punitha B R
@Pooh · 2:06

@Manalika

So they're just like, you do your best, you give your best, and the results are all up to it. So I am a person who is not that great in studying. But yeah, I do agree. At some point of time, I'm like, okay, fine. This is too much for my brain to get in. But I don't give up. I try my level best to get in good marks. And we shouldn't torture anyone
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