Because at the end of the day, emotions are all sold up. Things are all complicated. The more you think about it, the more you give it a thought, the more you give importance. It just kills your time and just kills you from inside. So just live it all aside. Forgive people who just hurt you or trying to hurt you. Who will hurt you? Just have a mindset. Okay I just forgive you. I just forget it. I just forgive you
Varun Aich
@varunkaich · 0:46
So, you know, thank you really nicely. You share. I really appreciate your thoughts. It's nothing to challenge, you know, first of all, this whole forgiveness humility do you think it's overrated? Sari Joe humility forgive. It's overrated. And revenge is best served cold. Not going to forgive anyone who has come at me with some negative intention. I will not forgive. I will not forget. I will get back. That's my motivation in life
You know, it's all about perceptions, views and experiences. Basically, everyone's experiences have built their perceptions and opinions about things. So somewhere back then, even I used to think revenge. I want to take revenge. Revenge is going to give you momentary happiness. It's going to satisfy your ego. But the point is, your mind, your body and your soul will remind of the times where you put your heart, mind and soul into doing something evil. It keeps account
Varun Aich
@varunkaich · 1:26
I'm not going to search for them. I know they're seeing my post on FPA revenge has already been done. It's best done when it's served cold. That's what I'm saying. And I don't want to change anybody's perception, man. I respect individuality. Everybody's got their own thought process. But you have to do something about something. You cannot just let it go
Okay, I understand. You mean to say that you'll be indifferent towards them. You know, indifference is the worst revenge. Or I'd say the best revenge that you can take from anyone when, you know, reach the stage of indifference is when you have dually achieved the power of detachment and the power of just letting things be. Everyone has a different definition of forgiveness. Indifference is also forgiveness. Just letting go is also forgiveness. Or just doing good deeds is also forgiveness
Varun Aich
@varunkaich · 0:31
You hear? Mortuary. Yeah, I appreciate, man. You're absolutely right. Indifference. Indifference is the word. And yeah, I mean, end of the day, the as of now, my only mission is to be a good human being. Message be a good person. But that doesn't mean that my behavior has to be good to everyone. I mean, my behavior depends on how they treat me. So, yeah, I hope you appreciate that
L Kausar
@LuzuDayum · 2:14
Thank you so much, Varun, for sharing your perspectives and perception that you have regarding forgiveness and all. And I think the revenge that is served cold is the best one. As you said, it it's fine, it's true somewhere because I do forgive, but there's a part of me subconsciously that doesn't forget as well. So that's a different side of me
L Kausar
@LuzuDayum · 1:36
So it depends on your personal taste and choice like how would you just let things go off or go on and how the person who did you wrong will feel the realization themselves
Shashank Sehgal
@SSS135 · 1:28
Definitely. We know that forgiving people is not an easy task and it cannot be done very easily. You just say that you want to forgive, it's not going to happen. And after forgiving I was actually so yeah, it really helps. And thank you for posting because I think everyone should know this thing at least because this will really help them. And I'm also saying from a personal experience
L Kausar
@LuzuDayum · 1:16
Hey. Hi. Firstly, thank you, thank you, thank you so much for replying to my swell and sharing such an inspirational and really motivational story and personality experience of yours that just persuades others to follow the path of forgiveness and to just feel light and free from all those burden of crutches and guilt inside our heart and just to feel like, okay, God will see to it