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Because what you're telling to the universe is that you do not deserve any better than what was given. You date on the level of your self esteem. We do. We all do. So if you feel like you're not enough, if you feel like you're not beautiful, if you feel like you're not worthy of true love, if you don't see yourself as the queen or even a king, how can you expect to attract that very thing?
London Reads
@Londonreads · 2:25
You got to take somebody off so that way you can get to your promised land. So examine your circle, see who needs to get the h*** off your boat. Seriously. See who needs to get off. So that way you can gain your peace of mind, you can sleep peacefully, and things come at you and so forth. Examine that. It's important. I'm going to end it on that note. You guys have a good day. Have a good afternoon
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:33
I am not private about the fact that I have been married twice. I completely resonate with what you said in terms of you attract where your self esteem is. I'm not quoting you verbatim, but that was how my brain interpreted it. First marriage, I was in a space of I just want to check mark off boxes. I have graduated from school. I've achieved the position that I wanted. I was considering grad school at the time and it was like, well, what's next?
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@Swell · 0:15
London Reads
@Londonreads · 1:06
It built us into a more stronger, wiser woman. That's beautiful. I just lost my train of thought. Sorry. I had a long day. But I'm just glad that you got yes, the quick relationships tend to fail. I've heard some fairy tales, and people been married for 15 years after knowing someone for only a week, but that's a very rare thing. But toast to us, though. We made it through
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