Suppose one of your kids is complaining to you about their life and lack of what what, what, what lesson from your life experience with them that you wish you'd have known or understood sooner, and then take the time to really contemplate that. So my answer to this question, this unconventional question is relentlessly earning a living, totally focusing on trying to pay the bills and make a living is a misplaced priority and an empty goal when you're not actually living a life worthy of your highest aspirations