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Confessions of a Latina
@Latinatalk · 4:58

Serving the plate to the men first

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But at the same time it's not necessarily a negative viewpoint because I was taught that for me to seek comfort in the mail it was for protection and like I said, comfort. A lot of us are conditioned when we're younger that if we are in a situation that is of danger or fear that we typically will seek the comfort and the protection of the male. If there's a male and a female there, typically we will look to the male for that comfort

#latina #community #tradition #daughter #relationship

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@rocio
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 3:10
And when I sought comfort or safety oh, interestingly enough, I guess physically, I if I was physically hurt or scared that I would be physically hurt, I would go towards my dad. And if it was more emotional, I go towards my mom. And I wonder what that is in relation to gender
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@Her_Sisu
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:13
Hey, it's JL. Hopefully I can fit this in in five minutes. I 100% agree with you, and mainly because I have traditionalist views in terms of CisGEN roles, cisgender roles for the male and the female. So what masculinity is, what femininity is, is my views are very traditional in that now my views of how those two people come together in a relationship are a little bit non conservative or nontraditional
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Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

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Where are the plate packers and dishwashers in the family? 🤓😂

Hello. Hello. Thank you for this wonderful talk. I'm joy so glad to be able to jump in. I think we all, in some way, shape, or form or culture, have some sort of traditional, traditional or family tradition or gender traditions that are just a part of our culture, of our cultural plate, the multi, dynamic plate that we have
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@Latinatalk
Confessions of a Latina
@Latinatalk · 2:46

@Her_Sisu #selflessness #relationships #tradition #kindness

The same way way that a man would most likely go out and get a candle that you have smelt before or a fragrance that you like and having that lit when you're around the apartment or the house and being able to enjoy just that small gesture
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