Instead of just being truly honest and saying, Well, listen, I'm in this space right now of wanting a real commitment with someone who I am emotionally, mentally and physically connected to emotionally, being able to share my life story with you and not be judged mentally, being able to have deep and stimulating conversations that actually lead to a deeper understanding of one another and physically. Well, we all know what that means
Professor Z
@Professor42 ¡ 3:20
I've given them access to certain services that they otherwise would not be able to have access through connections of mine, thus saving them money and time on certain things. So I went pretty far length for this person. I've been in other relationships, but this was probably the longest and again, probably the only relationship that I put. 100%. Commitment to. This relationship ended badly because this person was doing things with other people on the side
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo ¡ 4:07
Dating probably is. No. It probably is no more frustrating time to date than now. In the age of Information, there is no more saturation to be had than in the dating world, and I tend to find that we assume when we are wanting to date and we are seeking others to date that they want to date as well
Ophelia Johnson
@LadyO ¡ 2:49
Thank you so much for sharing. And, yeah, it is quite complex and complicated here. So I've just decided to kind of take a backseat to the whole thing and just enjoy my life and do the things that I love to do. And I know that what's meant for me will be for me. So I'm trying not to think about it too much. I've actually gone through and cleared out my roller decks
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs ¡ 5:00
I mean, that's intense. I think. Well, I've done a lot of dating, had a good amount of girlfriends and I'm in a relationship now. And I think you're right. I wish to God there was like a mental like health test, like, there's a little quiz, nothing intense that you can just, like, give a person because people are out there dealing with some very not dealing. That's the problem
Ophelia Johnson
@LadyO ¡ 3:37
And I think I'm actually going to do a swell on that when I hang up with you when I stop this recording, but not trusting my instincts in the sense that I can literally sit with someone and feel their energy and know that that person is not for me. They're just not. But they say all the right things, and I give them a chance because we get on really well. We can laugh together. We can have really good conversations. And that means so much to me
Darrisha Daniel
@Dee94 ¡ 3:15
Bounced around from fling to fling to fling. And then here I am with this person I actually like. So I am prepared to take it to a certain level. Not to say that I want something serious, but yeah, it's just kind of like you have to take the ebbs and the flows as you will and try not to force anything I found is the best way to go in dating
Ophelia Johnson
@LadyO ¡ 4:39
So yeah, I'm not putting my faith in anyone right now. I'm just putting all my focus on me building my business, trying to make the best out of this life, enjoying my kids and that's it. Dating is like a secondary thing. It's just something I do just to kind of get out of the house and spend time with someone who I can actually have a good time with