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The banter between all of us can continue, but politely. Not that anyone has been offensive in any way toward me. However, I do feel that I need to address one of the elephants in the room. I feel like there is some animosity that might be developing here on Swell, and I think people should just take a moment, maybe just to listen. I respect everyone's opinion. I respect everyone's way of life
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:46
Thanks for chiming in. You know, you and I at where have had our differences before, but I still listen to all your swells and you still listen to mine. So I don't know what's going on, but I know that I'm not going to change who I am for anyone unless it's Jesus. I've encountered a couple of things, but I just let him go because it's not worth it
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:29
I just am not going to touch certain subjects because it does offend some people sometimes and I don't want to be that person. I'm not your judge or your jury. I can't give you a heaven or hell to put you in. All I can do is sit on the sidelines and pray. And if you want my help, you'll say, hey, coach, or hey, friend. I was thinking such and such. What do you think?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:14
Thanks, Edward. I really appreciate that. That's very helpful and very insightful. I appreciate you taking the time to just remind me that it's okay. So thank you
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 4:00
So I'm not going to keep myself in that environment. That doesn't mean I don't appreciate them. It's just as I choose not to hear that stuff. So as long as we're mindful of each other, respect one another, if it's not for you, then don't respond. Because some people are real sensitive and some people are argumentative. Some people love to argue. Some people are always negative
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
I agree what you said or whatever, because I don't like stuff to linger, right? I don't like stuff to linger because when stuff lingers, then you begin to overthink it, and then it becomes bigger than what it needs to be. Man, I didn't want to do two responses to this. So I think people just really need to if something is going on, if you feel in a type of way, then go to the person
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
And so although I like swell and I enjoy the conversations I have on here, it had got to be a bit much for me. So I had to pull myself away for a while. And so that's why I haven't been commenting on a lot of stuff. And it's not that I have anything against people. I just had to take a break from this app for a minute because when I looked at how long I was on here, I'm on here a lot
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:29
Quote, unquote. But when you see someone else living a mature life in Christ, you want to try to follow the example. If they are telling you that you're doing something wrong or they're holding you accountable for what you are doing, I can see that. I do agree with you on that. So just being you is the best thing you could possibly do for yourself, because who else is going to do it?
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:22
I agree, Queen. I agree. We all need to be respectful of each other. And just because I don't agree with you doesn't mean I have animosity against you. It doesn't mean that I'm not willing to see your side of the story. I've learned as I get older that I used to be that way, that if you didn't agree with what I agree with, I was like, you know what?
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