Kelly Thomas
@KNicole · 4:45
How do you not bring emotional baggage from your previous relationship to your new one?
Or do you kind of just run off and get your mind right and then come back and have a discussion with your new partner? How does that work for you? So I'm bringing this up. I'm going to give you a little history. So I was married. I got divorced last year after being in a relationship for 16 years
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:30
And so I think taking enough time between relationships and doing the work in between that time to make sure that we're the best version of ourself we can be, I think that that is the best thing that we can do for both ourselves and the next person. But thank you so much for inviting
Kelly Thomas
@KNicole · 3:45
Hey, SIS, thanks for responding back. You made some really kelly valid points about this topic, and I have to commend you on that. You know what? I feel like sometimes you're just not aware that you're bringing those baggage, that luggage, into your new relationship ship. Like you said, sometimes things happen and then your response is something related to baggage from your previous relationship. And then you kind of, well, hopefully you figure out that, you know what?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Ferris Moore
@FeMotivationz · 2:56
They place your baggage and they load it on the plane so that when you get to your femotivationz, it's there. Now the thing is, inside, when we bring in baggage, a lot of the baggage is baggage that we don't need. But people in baggage claim know how to handle the person that knows how to do baggage claim in your life that specializes in baggage claim, should I say?
Sonia Wright
@Wrightsonia · 4:42
As long as neither one of you is playing the blame game, but you're both willing to look at it, step away from it, come back to it, revisit it and just kind of see what you can learn from it. I think that's the kind of relationship that you want to work with. I know for me, I was married for 20 years before I got divorced. And that's like a whole new other topic. But coming into a new relationship