@killemerald
Emerald Dorcelly
@killemerald · 5:00

Are there good men ?

Like, having just gotten out of a not so great relationship and then finding someone that meets those needs and that I really like is very weird. It's very strange because I feel like I'm always catastrophizing or expecting the worst. Right. I go in expecting just this catastrophe and for it to be really bad, and it's like, wait, I think you might actually be a good guy. Yeah. It really like being in a shady situation before meeting someone who's actually genuine

#rant #love

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@Bolanile
Bolanile O
@Bolanile · 3:44
But the important thing is to not force things and to be aware of the red flags so that you know how to navigate and yeah, be honest, be upfront and call out anything that does not sit right. And that's one of the things I will say I've learned in relationships is if something doesn't sit right with you, if something bothers you, communicate it. Don't be afraid and just do that. And again, don't be afraid to step away
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@ZLisbon
Zara Lisbon
@ZLisbon · 3:54
This was so entertaining to listen to you guys talking about this. I relate so much. I feel like it's exhausting. So many men pretend to be good men and advertise themselves as good and one of the good guys, and that's always a weird red flag, obviously. And guys who can act really nice until you've done something that they don't like and then they kind of turn on you and get vicious. I've definitely met my share of those
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@Cass_franco
Cassandra Franco
@Cass_franco · 3:15
But recently, I've kind of been realizing that there's an issue with saying that phrase. The first instance, I went home last month for spring break, and I sat in front of my dad. I was like, God, I f****** hate all men. And he felt some type of way about it. And at first I was confused
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