I think, if anything, for personal matters, we need to be realistic with the approach, with how we are and overall, what we want out of life to a very high degree, even if it's temporary. And I know that it can vary between values for individuals, but for the most part, if you simply have something realistic to go for, you'll live a better life, you'll live happy, you'll have confidence, you'll have a reason far beyond that basic mentality