Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:30
I bring nothing to the table
But asking that like you got a roster of women, and if you do, that is perfectly fine, because I do believe that you should be able to date around. But if you got a roster of women and you trying to see if I stand out more than the others, it's fine, baby. I will eliminate myself. That's just how I feel. You all rant over. For now, anyway
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:47
Okay? I've been checking her out. I've been talking to her. I've been getting to know her. I believe that she has a lot of things that could really benefit me and benefit my life. I believe she has a lot of things that could really add to my life. So that's why I want to pursue her. You don't pursue somebody and then turn around and ask, well, what do you bring to the table? That's just dumb
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 5:00
Okay, so as we was having the discussion and he got done, he actually asked me what was my take on that. And what I asked him was, I said, okay, so are you looking for a companion, someone that you could love and care for or business partner? Because why is it important for your significant other or, as you have already stated, your business partner? No, he says, it's not a business partner. That's just life
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 2:35
Hey, girl. I was renting so much, girl, just a continuation. He hung up on me, but I didn't care because again, he was talking we was talking with each other. He wasn't talking, like, directed into me, because like I said, I already knew that it wasn't going to where and I remembered what it was. I asked him I asked him what came in a relationship, if he was in a relationship and it was a woman of his dreams
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 0:21
Yeah, absolutely. Miss cole, if a man if a man, capital M-A-N is pursuing you me, I us women, he should already know. You are absolutely right, girl. I heard that. I'm like, okay, she could go ahead and drop the mic
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 1:43
You don't need these prompts, because, first of all, people lie. People lie all the time. Like, you really want me to list out to you, oh, I have this degree, I do this, I do this. I can do this for you. This is what's going to happen if we're to get what no, I'm not doing it. And I wish that we would all be released from the shackles of these type of questions, because it's garbage
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 2:39
She's asking you, what do you do for self care and how do you feel about yourself? And that's an issue. And then the things that you're describing, it's more so to me, monetary things, to me, more so. A partnership, like a business partnership, a financial partner, but it doesn't seem like it's driven more so by love. I agree that there needs to be a partnership in it too
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 0:31
And if you're and if you're gonna act like that initially, then nigh trying to mess with you, because you probably ain't bringing enough to keep me anyway, so I'm right with
You're telling me what you want. I wasn't really feeling like, what are you bringing to the table? You know what I'm saying? And I don't know a dude that starts off with that or at the first dinner or the first date. He's simple. So you're on the right track. You can leave that alone. Just get on and walk on out of there. But I used to be like this. I did it one time. It was a nice woman
Only one that I'm allowed to have sex with in the entire world, and you using sex as a weapon or don't want to meet me halfway. Or you need all the stars to line up in order for us to be intimate. And I'm like unbeknownst to you on fire. I fell in love with you ten times since I got home. And you like, man, look, that hurts. That's a hurt piece, but ultimately
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 0:56
And I was saying I don't know who I was responding to, but I was saying that I don't feel like anybody of substance is even going to ask you that type of question. A real person of substance is going to take their time to really get to know you. What do you want me to do? You really want me to list it out to you? Okay. I have a degree. You know what I'm saying? I got a job. This is what I do
I promise I'll make it quick, because I really didn't get to what I was trying to get to. But ultimately, I wouldn't be surprised if a woman that's like super thorough, right? And I can't wait for it to happen, as a matter of fact, for them to ask her, what are you bringing to the table? First of all, I'm bringing my independence to the table. Number one, you don't have to worry about providing for me
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:52
I answered the question. And when I answered the question, he was like, well, dang. And then I put it back to him, and when he answered the question, that let me know he wasn't the man for me because he was talking about materialistic things. And I said to him, I said, I just don't think you and I are on the same level. We don't want the same things on our life
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:43
But if I'm with you, we're together, and especially if I'm the one that brings up don't play with me. I'm the one that kind of initiates the whole what's going on with you? What is it about you? I'm not here for game type of conversation. And then you say to me, all right, so what's wrong with you? Obviously, there are things that we both didn't do right
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 3:54
Hi. Thank you so much for sharing that, sharing your experiences and your opinion. I appreciated it. You sharing how somebody asked you that one time, and then from their response, you could tell it wasn't going to work because they spoke about materialistic things is one of the reasons as to why I can't stand that question. As I was listening to you speak, and then you said what he said, I was like, exactly. This right there is my problem
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:32
So maybe for me, it's the phrasing of the question. What's wrong with you that I don't like? But again, I laugh when I hear women say, I am the table, right? I laugh when I hear women say that, because you open yourself up for so many different comments that you don't even want to have happen. Okay? But to each his own. I don't judge people. People live their lives and say and do what they want to do
It's nasty and always has been. It's not a good look on anybody, but to say, look, I'm looking for the one, and then to be with someone or a number of people, and then they do something that's other than what the one would do, and then all of a sudden it's over. Well, I met a lot of good people and I came to the conclusion that I was comparing them to a person that didn't exist
And I know where I've been through meditation, and if those two spirits can come together as one, whether it be in meditation, whether it be in praise, whether it be in prayer, that's got to be amazing. That's got to be amazing. It's got to be amazing. I guess I could say bliss. Never felt it, you know what I mean? I wish somebody could tell me what passion is
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:00
And so if that's the way God intended it, if he intended for a man to have a woman, then he intended for us to be together, and he intended for us to go through life together. And so we have to as women, and I can't speak for men because I'm not a man. But for women, we have to stop saying that. And we have to watch what we speak, because sometimes we speak things and then we speak them into existence