Chasing Problems creates more Problems chasing Solutions creates a better word. Let me explain. We are often so busy that we don't have enough of time or energy to fully pursue the good we want to see, create experience and perpetuate in the world. Instead, it sometimes feels easier in the moment to focus on the bad, to complain, to discuss the negative things we wish would change. But solutions don't appear that way. Talking about bad things doesn't make these things go away
Manalika Das
@Manalika · 1:32
Yes, you're absolutely correct that thinking about bad things and focusing on negative things may not make these things go away. But, you know, there's something called a human nature and we are all kind of bonded to it. And there are certain emotions that are so strong that even if we try to restrict it, we are not capable enough to do that. Let me just take an example of a person who just gave an exam and failed that exam
Divya Bhatia
@Anastasia_9 · 0:37
Hi. So you are very right. Talking about bad things or bad experiences in your life is not going to make a change. It's not going to make it disappear. If you're saying that if you talk about bad things it's going to disappear or we are not going to remember them, you are wrong. It's never going to happen. So what you can do is you can change your problems. You can face all your problems and fight them and work towards getting them right
Hello Guys I totally agree with this topic. Like talking about bad things can affect on your personality. Also a person who is always talking negative things will reflect on his personality personality. So I try myself to be positive and talk only good things about life and I try to keep maximum distance from taking stress or anywhere negative thing. Anyway guys keep it up. Keep sharing your thoughts on this topic. Sure
Priya Jyoti
@priyajyoti · 0:56
It is one of the qualities I can say of a person if he or she takes or a situation in a positive manner or a negative manner. So instead of talking about the problems more, we should talk about solutions more
CHANDRITA DAS
@Chandrita · 0:22
What you said here is so misappropriate. We often fear of facing some problems or situations and the fear becomes so high on it day by day that we cannot get over it. So I also think that without being fearful, we should face a situation and handle it with much more sincerity
Palak Jain
@palakjain · 0:33
So truth Shatakshi I used to be the same person. I used to rant about the problems that I'm going through. And then at the end of the day I realized that I have spilled the tea in front of so so many people. That all I hear about the same things from everyone. But then I realized that rather than this, I should sit and think about the solutions of that problem and once they have done it, I there is no going back to ranting about my problems
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:28
Hey Shatakshi, I hope you are doing good and I really love the topic that you have raised because this is something we all do but do not work on. And I guess it's one of the most difficult, destructive forces we'll ever have to face and it's inside our own head for thinking about problems or just chasing them won't actually solve them until unless we deal with it. And it's just life. It's all about good days and bad days