@hollyjoymccabe
holly mccabe
@hollyjoymccabe · 4:58

Putting life on hold waiting for some certain thing to happen, and identity crisis

That's a really big one that people can relate to. I know because it's very common. And then since this transition, I've realized that once I got sick and I gained about £45 and my clothes didn't fit and I had a real difficulty getting out into the world, my vocal cords started dysfunctioning. So I had a lot of trouble actually speaking and other physical limitations like walking and driving

#traumarecovery #lifecoaching #mentalheath #mindset #spirituality #traumahealing

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@sebc23
Sebastian Cahill
@sebc23 · 2:09
And I've let it hold myself back because I'm like, oh, until I get to this place where I look exactly how I want it, sound how I want to dress how I want exactly. I'm not ready to be experiencing life or to be experienced as a person in these ways
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@hollyjoymccabe
holly mccabe
@hollyjoymccabe · 1:55

@sebc23

So I just thought the way you worded that was really powerful. And I'm so glad that this message resonated with you. I'm so glad that it was a gentle nudge to inquiry. And I think the biggest thing is definitely that constant process that this whole thing is. I wish that when I first got into trauma, healing and personal development that there were more people in the leadership role that talked about the fact that you don't ever just get there
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@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@sasharunyen20
Sasha Runyen
@sasharunyen20 · 0:48

@hollyjoymccabe

I think it's important that we talk about these things so people can know that they're not alone when they're experiencing hardships. And so just wanted to say I thank you for sharing. Really enjoyed listening to you as well. Bye
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@sagarbhosale
Sagar Bhosale
@sagarbhosale · 3:36
From a very early on, from the age of 16, the problems have been accepted. Your problems as teacher, they're teaching you and you're just conquering them one after the other. You do not have that negative approach of oh, I'm just going to stop now. You rather are a person who has moved on from one challenge to the other
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