J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:51
The End 10/5/2022
And then I had to go through another dark space of just mourning what I thought could be and what I thought was and because of the level of financial abuse that I'm still digging myself out of and it's having some devastating effects, I just was h*** bent on not filing for a divorce. I was like, I'm not spending any more money towards this man. And then I finally bit the bullet and just said, fine, I will do it
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:55
Whatever the people that didn't go see you, didn't check in, make sure you were good, those are the people you kind of ran back to. But now it's kind of like you can't tug on those heartstrings. You can't make me feel guilty. You made your bed and you olive, you have to lie in it, right?
Nick G
@NickGweezy · 3:06
And then yesterday, I felt like it was more of a victory. I mean, if Wednesday was that bad, what could happen Thursday that's worse end. I mean, Thursday got better, and now it's Friday. So without further ado, happy Friday, and I hope everybody has a wonderful weekend. Love to hear what anybody's got going on. I'm going to try to get out and see my nephew. I have not met him yet
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:33
It was so easy to transition through. That what has been the most challenging because there's times I still have to be forgive myself. Like there's a thought or a memory that will come up and then I think about my action in that moment and then I have to to go process through all those feelings again end I have to forgive myself again
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:46
My favorite type of wine are ports. Have you had a port wine, Nick? I don't know if you have one or not, but port wines one, because you get the most bang for your buck. One, they taste so rich and so full, but on top of that, you get the most bang for your buck. Generally, a good port has about 2020 1%, sometimes 19% alcohol percentage in it. And they're delicious, delicious, delicious
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 1:51
And I think figuring this out and separating from them emotionally, psychologically, physically, et cetera, has helped me recognize red flags in men. And I think I did date a few narcissists along the way. But I don't get married ever. It's not something I've ever done and I don't ever share finances. Although my mum is a covert narcissist, she was a good mum, practically. She taught me a lot of good things
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:56
I am very excited about it. I am saying right now. As of 12:19 p.m. Eastern Standard Time on October 8 in the year of our Lord 2022. That right now I am sold on being in a significant relationship and not living together and having more of an Oprah steadman type situation where it's a long term partnership rooted in respect for one another. End. Acceptance of one another. Versus having to have some type of label or title or marriage. So to speak. Who knows?
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:43
Oh, my goodness, I've been raised to be portraying myself, to be so perfect, and now having this imperfect situation end, I don't want to be judged. I remember one family removed the comment after my first marriage, so I ignored a lot of red flags in my second because I heard them say, gosh, J l. Could definitely obtain degrees and things like that, but she definitely can't keep a man. And I was just like, what?