Setting boundaries & the People Who Don’t Respect Them
And we would have these conversations, and then I realized we were sitting down and having those conversations too often. And then she was always missing dates. I thought it was yesterday. We didn't say next week. It was driving me crazy, and I'm a very empathetic person, but my God, it really tried my patience. I don't know. I know that everybody is not the same. And that where I'm weak. You can be strong. I get all of that
Well, my heart would have said, well, my heart, I did listen to my heart. I let her stay with us, but I found out later she was holding a lot of animosity towards me because of me setting these boundaries she felt like which made me laugh. She felt that me setting boundaries was really me being entitled. This woman knows my story. I shared it with her. I said, I'm the way I am now because I used to let people run over me
Arthur Benitez
@Arthur_Dante · 4:58
So whatever they are because it doesn't need to make sense to them because as lot of times there are people who doesn't like to respect boundaries because they are not the same boundaries that they have within their own relationships but that doesn't mean that they cannot just care. So I think you did the right thing. Good for