@gsalzer
Grace Salzer
@gsalzer · 0:54

i need advice…

Okay, so this is a very personal swell, but I need some advice. Okay. I like a boy. It's funny to say that as like a 19 year old, but I do. I have like a little crush. Okay. And I'm really bad at this kind of stuff. I'm bad at flirting. I'm bad at everything. I'm bad at making it known that I have a crush. I guess for some background, in context, we do talk

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@Kashishlongiany
Kashish Longiany
@Kashishlongiany · 1:53

@gsalzer

Maybe just tell him to spend time with you or tell him that you love spending time with him. Try being as honest and as transparent as possible and maybe things work out your way and I hope it does. To be very honest, do you let me know? Whatever happens, it's really nice to speak to you through square
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@gsalzer
Grace Salzer
@gsalzer · 0:41
Okay. Thank you for the advice. It was really good advice. I'm going to do that. I'm going to try to make it more obvious because I don't want a friend zone myself, you know what I'm saying? Like, I'm going to try to be flirty and hang out with them. And I think I agree with your advice. I think that's the best way because you never know if you don't try it. I'm might as well
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@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@cosette
cosette tsai
@cosette · 1:31
I think that would probably be a nice and easy and not so much pressure way to get to know someone. Yeah. I feel like it's very complicated in College. I'm so sorry about that. But I wish there was a much more straightforward way, especially I'm not good with the relationship, so I was like, I need it to be more straightforward. Yeah. Let me know if that helped at all. And if you do plan to picnic, let me know how that works
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@gabrudolph
Gabie Rudolph
@gabrudolph · 1:21
But if he does want to go on a date, then that's great because then you can both start to get to know each other better and you can decide if you want to continue or not. Though I do have to say asking someone out on a date is pretty scary and I think a lot of times like girls think that they can't do it. But I mean that's literally how I got with my boyfriend
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