@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 0:50

Interview with celebrity...

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My first question is can you define what sex exactly is? We really want to need a great, superb explanation about sex. My first question is that itself. What exactly the sexies

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@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 4:33
So what is sex? Good question. And actually, I don't think it's a very easy thing to define. Obviously, there's the dictionary definition of sex, as in the abbreviation of sexual intercourse, which is rather based on the Petra sexual norm of a p**** being inserted into the v*****. That essentially is the definition of sex. However, what is sex? My first answer will be it's many things to many people
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 0:44

@Bendi_G

I really want to know what is the importance of sex education in coming generations and in our country? India? I'm sure you're in India right now. I think, yeah. You can add your experience also
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 4:55

@Gogasusa

As long as they asked it in a sensible, material way, I was happy to answer it. We have to deal with the reality of young people's lives and not try to pretend that these things do not exist and that there are issues that young people need to address and need to have
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 0:42

@Bendi_G

Thanks a lot for that and let's go to the next question that is about masturbation see about masturbation there are so many myths in ancient or around the world one thing is it's not really good for health next thing is masturbation is a result for boys only and another one is it will reduce the productivity of pupil and know these all are real or not so can you please see I is masturbation have issue with this statement or if there is any relation or this is simply a myth I really want to know deep about that so I think you will give a great answer to this question too
@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 3:38

@Gogasusa

And very often they're sharing a room with their mum, sleeping in the same room as their mums and dads, their brothers and sisters, sometimes with extended family, and yet they're going through puberty, their hormones are going wild. They're often waking up with erections, which is what many boys do because we have high levels of testosterone in the morning. And where is the outlet for them to express themselves sexually when they grow up in such environments?
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 1:09

@Bendi_G #lgbtqia+

We are not ready to accept that because we have a conventional way of sexuality that is in between male and female, straight only we are accepting. So sir, can you just give a description or explanation of that topic? Because we passed the Pride month recently and so it's a very important topic. Pick also, can you please give some information about this LGBTQIA plus community and about sexuality?
@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 3:39

@Gogasusa

And like I mentioned in Paris well everything in moderation, everything in balance but masturbation is a perfectly normal and healthy thing which is why my previous one I just mentioned about the situation of many boys in economically challenging environments often don't have the opportunity to even m********* when it is an incredibly important thing for them to be able to do have the opportunity to do
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 0:32

@Bendi_G

Thank you very much for the replacer. The next question is about STDs. See, STDs have a great, great influence in sex. And sometimes it will block us from doing that and sometimes it will reduce the enjoyment and all what may be the reason for the spread of STDs and why people are not aware about it in correct way and what are the way to reduce it? Sir, can you please give a small explanation about that?
@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 4:29

@Gogasusa

And if we look around in society. There's probably many men and many women who have to spend their lives suppressing their real feelings about their sexuality because they're trying to live by to a sexual norm which has been imposed on them by Indian society. By their religion. By their family. By their culture. By all sorts of things. And not by their own desire to be who who they want to be. Loving who they want to live. Love and living how they want to live
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 1:09

@Bendi_G

And you have been here for a long time. I saw some pictures of yours in Swell playing with children. And I know you got some experience, got some feelings from India here. And I really want to know what do you think about India and what are the experience you want to share with us about India and what are the fears that India need to divide developer need to have improvement or something like that? I really want to know that. Sir? Yes. Over to you
@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 3:09

@Gogasusa

And even if now you have HIV, you can live a normal life as long as you have access to the drugs, to the medication that you need to take every day to prevent it. There's also medication which you can take which prevents you from passing on HIV to other people as well. So there have been so many advances. But that doesn't mean that we as responsible adults, active sexual adults should not be aware and educated about sexually transmitted infections
@Gogasusa
Gogasusa Pathasarathi
@Gogasusa · 1:34

@Bendi_G

Then we come about the topic LGBTQIA, plus then we talk about the STD that is sexually transmitted diseases. So we covered most of the all portions or primarily basic things of sex education and thanks a lot better it for giving such a beautiful replace and we are hoping that you like India very much. Thanks a lot. I can't express my gratitude to you with words and I really thank you very much
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@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 4:33

@Gogasusa

I had to come for a look test for another film I'm doing. So I couldn't talk to you then, but I'm talking now. And thank you for all the questions. It's been a lovely interview. Thank you for sharing an interest in me. And if anybody has any more questions or if you have any more questions, do indeed feel free to ask them. I'm very happy to respond
@Bendi_G
Benedict Garrett
@Bendi_G · 1:42

@Gogasusa

And also, in relation to how I see India, I also look at it through my British eye as being carrying a certain sense of shame and guilt in relation to the role that Britain plays in Indian history. So that's also impacts on how I look at India, my understanding of Indian history and society. But I've talked about that in another swell, being Ashamed To Be British, which I don't know if you've listened to already, but feel free. So there you go
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