Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:51
Primal Thoughts
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The way people feel about you is not of your own doing, but is of their pain and sometimes even suffering. Let go of how they feel about you and don't take it personal. And I've heard this in other instances in my life before, but I never really kind of grasped what that meant until I went through these experiences. And one of the most recent times I went through this experience, it was so weird because the person at the time seemed like they were chill
Ophelia Johnson
@LadyO · 1:35
It's something, and I don't know what it is. And honestly, I don't care. I really don't care. And I'm talking about people I have to work with, people who have to come into contact with every single day that just, for some reason will smile on my face. But behind my back, there's something to be said. And at first it would be hurtful, but now it's just like, oh, okay
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:34
And man, oh man, can people treat you harshly at times when you represent aspects of truth that they don't want to recognize or sadly feel aren't? But it brings about great conversation. Let me just bring it also into the conversation. I'm not being f***** with every day by people. That's not what I'm talking about here
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 1:12
Right. I do have unflattering parts of my personality. And if someone's speaking on that, then that is true. And then to your point, also, there are people who sort of have all these different things going on within themselves, victim complexes, deflection, all kinds of things like that. And that's them. But yeah, I guess I don't fully accept or fully reject what you're saying. But thank you. Peace. Bye
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:33
Now it's a new leaf I'm turning, which I had to learn from my past experiences. See, I wouldn't know how to handle that in situations. So it would be what would cause some of the conflict to which people would say the things that they would say. And I realized a lot of that was in my lack of confidence in the material that I was talking about. But I feel very sound in my judgment here
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 2:40
And in my example, I used rejectors. That was kind of probably a strong example, but I set what you're saying. I just think it might be a little bit more like another layer and you don't. And that's perfectly fine. But I think this is what makes the world beautiful. Like I learn from you. You know what I mean? Even if I'm not agreeing with you. So yes, I'm just saying that thank you for responding
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:13
But it's just a part of my process. But anyway, there was a moment on here where a person had contributed to my post and said something that I felt was out of bounds in the sense of where I was going with the topic, to where I didn't even respond to them. I just gave them a thumbs up for the response. So yeah, I realized it is out of respect and love that I go back and forth in a conversation
Krish Sehrawat
@KrishSeh511 · 0:07
Really appreciate and accept everything that you said in this well actually
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