Sometimes it can make them annoying in a way, but that's just my preference. But I want to know even based upon these studies, do you do do do do physically attractive people have a to life than you? And have you seen examples in your personal life where this was true? Thanks for listening to the swell, and I look forward to hearing what you have to say
Neal Damiano
@NealD · 1:34
And I hope I don't sound like a misogynist here, but especially more so in the females, because people like to look at beautiful women, and they can use that to obtain things sometimes. And that's the reality of life. So yeah, beauty sometimes and most likely gets their way
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:47
You know what I'll say? I'm attractive. I'm attractive. Yeah, it might sound egotistical to some, but just being honest, when I look at the life of, let's say, in sales and the red pillars and the black pillars and all that sort of stuff, I don't really relate so much with the involuntary celibacy sort of thing I choose when I want to refrain from sexual activities versus the women deciding for me, so I can't really speak to that so much
Brooke C.
@Brooke415 · 5:00
Attractive people are not more successful in this world because there is no division between the beautiful people and the ugly people. Okay, because I'm protesting the entire world view of us versus them. It's not either or it's yes. And first of all, second of all, I protest these standards for a good reason. Okay, wait, hold on. Let me justify that to me
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:39
I think from women, this is natural for some women to look at certain aspects of beauty and speak on it. But I think with some of these males, these incels, they're tapping into shadow, like functions of the self. And they are getting outside of this realm of where it's this deep phobia, especially in the black community where men don't evaluate other men's attractive looks. It's almost forbidden. You never say a guy looks attractive. You say they're cool Peoples
Average Joe
@AverageJoe · 3:40
Now, I do think as life goes on and people get older, that kind of falls by the wayside. If you've been through enough bullshit in relationships and stuff like that, and let's say you encounter a really attractive woman, but she's kind of s*****. And then you got, like, another woman like you're saying you find attractive based on other things
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:49
Every woman has kind of went through that phase, at least that heterosexual phase where they desired the most physical, impressive specimen of all time. And they had that. And it was cool. But they're past that. And some women, they can find that within a great quality guy. Now, not to say those guys are not personality. They don't have any personality because they certainly do
Average Joe
@AverageJoe · 2:06
It's always been kind of funny to me, but this is a title that people have thrown around recently. I don't know what's that like a five year old thing. Maybe longer. I'm not really on the cutting edge of things, but it's gone back to even when I was in high school. I would know guys that would be mad because the homecoming Queen wouldn't ever consider dating them. And I'd say, Well, what about her over there?
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 5:00
I like to call it a podium in a piece documentary, but a podcast. So I want to come from a place where they see. But I also want to give them perspective on the other side. What they think is like, magical and amazing is just as bitter and insecure and dark and f***** up as what they're going through. It's just in a different way. The dating scene for me, I don't feel I'm an incel
Paul H.
@ohnopauldidnt · 0:54
Pretty much just all of my interactions with other people. And I'm sure that a part of that might have to do with the boost in confidence that I have and all that. But really and truly, I do know it's because I significantly became more attractive. So yeah, basically trying to have it better is what it is
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:20
So yeah, obviously with a dramatic weight loss from your experience, you do notice the change in how people treat you so much so that it probably maybe bothers you a tiny bit. But actually it feels kind of good as well. So with this being, do you feel being physically attractive gives you certain advantages to life? You say, yeah, I'm a living result. I guess that says it right there
Brooke C.
@Brooke415 · 5:00
I don't want you to go and explore this, and you would probably do it masterfully, too, because they don't let men in. There's a backlash because there's the female version, too. I don't know if you heard of them. I found them, and I was, like, kind of intrigued because they were, like, empowered, beautiful chicks or something. So they are the opposite of themselves
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:38
And I think what's really going on is you have people exploiting these beautiful people to their liking, the p*** industry, the makeup industry, the clothing industry, the skincare industry, the gym industry, the supplement industry. They are all exploiting these beautiful people for their liking. So it's not as if these beautiful people really have a choice in terms of how their image is exploited and used
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:27
When I find someone attractive, I know how I can act and how I can be, but I want to feel like I'm very fair in how I delegate that attention to one's attraction. And whatnot considering here, like on Swell, right. I try to be as studious as I can to you in responses and have dialogue, but I don't ever want to. It's not in my nature to kiss up to anyone or nothing like that
Neto Costa
@netocostaesilva · 0:44
Well, first of all, sorry for my Brazilian accent, but that's true because I'm not the best looking guy. So I've always had a hard time trying to get a job out of date, whatever. And on social media. If I is a picture of me as a profile picture, only few people tend to interact with me. And that's too bad
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:54
It's only one of me now, and we don't necessarily put as much effort into dating at times as we do with gaming or other various hobbies and interest. Not saying that that's your case. But for me, once I approached dating as something to be taken a little more serious, I got better results as a sign of taking it a bit more serious
Neto Costa
@netocostaesilva · 0:19
Oh, yes, ma'am. Thank you for the words. It really means so much to me. And I really like this app so much. Thank you
Neto Costa
@netocostaesilva · 0:23
Hey, Joy, love. Thank you for your wise words. I think that somehow I already got through it