@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 0:13

Does Pain Help Or Stop Your Growth?

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What is the most hurtful thing someone has said to you? And can we grow from the hurtful things people say and do to us?

How does pain define you?

@Renee_Slay
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 4:31

@FryedOreo

And that's hard because even being family, there are situations that warranted for your own sanity. So that in turn, taught me yet another lesson. I get judged on the fact that I don't have a close connection with hardly anyone, to be honest. But I have no connection to my family, none. The family that's left surviving. And I had to do that for my own sanity. So judgment is passed on me a lot for not having anybody
@KINGPOPOFLA
DAYDAY Mcclenton
@KINGPOPOFLA · 2:56
I never thought if a situation would occur, her or me, I will say to her, we'll never be sisters no more. Our relationship as sisters will be done. That hurted me to my heart because I didn't feel like she should have just up and left the n**** nothing. But I felt like if I felt like how I felt at the time sorry about my background. That is so f****** not cool
@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:45

@Renee_Slay

Well, maybe it's honest, but they are unaware of the projecting they are doing onto themselves that they masquerade as in exchanging the energy into other people. So maybe there was elements of himself that he still is not coming to grips with, that he identified within you in terms of bad parenting and not a good person to be liked in, et cetera
@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:35

@KINGPOP

King. King Pop. Thank you for taking the time not only to listen to the swell, but to also offer an audio response. This swell reply of yours was anything but little. A major moment in your life where your own in denies the connection due to a mishap or maybe a deep grievance that just could not come to term. I have felt at times that way, I didn't say it aloud, but I do feel that my siblings and I don't have any connection beyond the blood
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

Welcome to Swell!

@OmegaStrange
Demarkis Klan Destine
@OmegaStrange · 1:03
It's? Yes and no. If you are mentally weak, pain can stop your growth. If you are mentally strong, I believe that pain can help you grow. There are some people that just hey, man, they're they're not survivors, right? It they just give up. They throw in the towel because that pain was just too d*** powerful. If you're built to just get through it, then, yeah, pain can help you grow. You it
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