@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:40

Being a dad in modern times.

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But I guess I was just reflecting on being a father in modern times and how so much people can project onto you things that they don't really have to. They feel these things for me that I don't feel myself and I think that I should. But out because I knew what I was doing when I made these kids. It's not as if they just fell on my lap and I had to deal with them. But anyway, that's what was on my mind for the day

Everyone’s Projecting insecurities onto you.

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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:41

Thank you Kendy.

Now, on the flip side, I have talked with women who were actually quite enamored that I was a father. And they just were surprised that I was a father in a way. And also too growing up, you would have never suspected me to be a father. I didn't want to watch my cousins, nothing like that. I was too irritated. It took a while for me to warm up to kids in general, but such is life
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@JCB07
Jared Bogda
@JCB07 · 1:53
Hey, Vidorio, thanks for sharing this. I think it's really personal, and I think that's really nice to have the confidence and the ability and the love around your family to share a post like this. And I think it's really interesting how we define families and how we define relationships and how a lot of people go into life assuming there's going to be a mother, a father, a boy and a girl in the perfect American family or whatnot
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