So what really happens when someone changes your mind about something? And is this a good or bad thing for your mind or your world of view? I have a great friend that changed my mind about how I form intimate relationships with women. Because prior to her. I had a modest operation and I thought if I talked with a lady and she smiled back at me and she laughed and she enjoyed my conversation. That we were going to have sex. Not marriage or a date
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:56
Hey, Dewuan, this is JL and I wanted to hop on your post about shaking world views briefly. Comment on what you were saying about females goes back to that comment I had a few weeks ago, how people of the opposite sex aren't really true friends. I mean, they may get to work, they may get work, but there's still that element of could he get it, could he not get it? Could I give it to her? Could I not give it to her?
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:55
You have a male friend and you're like, all right, you're out. You might be having a good time. They say, little affordable comments, you respond and you feel it the deal, right? You seal the deal. Now, from the woman's perspective, maybe it wasn't that great. Whatever the situation is, you're just not into it. It's like, let me pull back. Almost like a Jerry in the Lane story, right?
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:11
Some women don't even get that chance once you got it twice. But yeah, sometimes other pressure can be great society how they kind of can dictate for us to if you're not buried, it could be awkward when it comes to situations involving, oh, zay your foot on the lotion, you almost squirted somehow. A little bit. But anyway, my kids are home now. I'm cooking something, whatever. It's a surprise meal
Unity Eagle
@UnityEagle · 1:44
And I think in many cases that's why we are so stubborn often, because we didn't experience it or we did experience something else, and that experience made us believe. So that's my two cent, if you know what I mean. And I want to add one more thing. Over the last couple of years, I do change my mind a lot and have a much broader world view because I actually listed into people and without experience, I can even believe them and change my mind
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:17
But at my point in my life now I don't know if that's something I want but at the same time the last relationship I was in officially the girl and I, it became a friendly benefits thing, unfortunately, but we went into it in a relationship
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:33
But just seeing that she was on here, I was like, Whoa. Because that is still something I do when I'm looking at Swell. When I see a girl that looks kind of interesting, I'm going to the profile. I'm trying to see how big the picture can look to kind of get a view of, oh, okay. But it doesn't mean anything. I mean, you know, I'm a guy. I mean, not a guy
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 2:35
Nothing but brotherly and sisterly left here. Actually, I wasn't talking about friends with benefits, although it does exist. I'm talking about, you know, you're meeting someone and they become your friend, maybe, and and you might find them attractive in some crazy night. You decided to give in to your desires, and you sleep with that person, and you don't regret it, but you kind of do
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:52
But it still is that stigma and phobia attached to where when men do it, it's seen as bashful, even charming to a certain degree, much as with Drake. Drake these days when he takes a woman out somewhere, does something with her, he's seen as this guy that, oh, man, he got this endless list of baddies. And at the same time, he's not in any stable relationships
Unity Eagle
@UnityEagle · 2:24
You know, it's so funny when you said whenever a girl talked to you or you smiled and she smiled back, you thought you wanted to have sex. You know, back in the day I had similar thoughts about men and I was always like, oh, I'm not going to talk to a man or smile or have a conversation because he's going to think I want to have sex with him. So just ignore, isn't that funny? Oh my goodness
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:28
Sylvia, that was quite a burn that you basically, through my wisdom, learned that talking to guys is just no good. But obviously now that's not the case all the time, right. Just majority of the times, all my daughter says hello and yeah, I've grown a bit more since now, matured a bit more since now
Unity Eagle
@UnityEagle · 0:58
Hey, everyone. It was a bless talking to you, like always. And, you know, some days really became a joke. If there are three posts a day in total, it's a lot. Let me show you a picture, what they will show if you try to record. You're going to laugh at it so loud. So, yeah, look at the picture. And nice to hear your little one in the background. I always love the ambient noises around you
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:16
That's crazy. All those stipulations. You can't ask icebreaker questions. What went wrong there? You can't promote business. You can't hurt people's feelings. Yo. Oh, sound wave has changed. Was that a problem there? Was it really a problem? Ice breakers. D***. You can't get a conversation started. What can you talk about there? So you can't ask people how's their day? That's crazy to me
Unity Eagle
@UnityEagle · 0:09
Oh, and by the way, I did slide in your DM on Instagram. Go check it out. When you find some time, you're gonna have a laugh