@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:23

#ArgueThat Arguing is healthy when done properly.

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You may spend a lifetime avoiding the conflict, therefore arguing is bad. I recently made a swell talking about debates. Swell, you can thank me later. I basically gave you the blueprint of an idea for debate this, but that's another topic. We'll argue that at a different time, but for now we're going to talk about arguing. A lot of people in my recent Swell mentioned that arguing is bad, but debating is good. And I thought that was fascinating

Do you avoid conflict?

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@RehDogg
Reh Dogg
@RehDogg · 5:00
And I could go into other examples, but that is just the reality we live in now, is that many platforms are catering to the insanity, which I would argue it's all part of this demonic culture that has to come to pass before the end is upon us and Jesus comes back. So that's pretty much what's going on here
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:29

@RehDogg

But I recognize valid points regardless of belief system. This is, I think, the key to unlocking better arguing forming strategies and ideas that can further enhance the conversation. You thank you for stopping by
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@everythingjay
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 3:13
Hey there. I think I am like a born debater. So I went through different kind of stages in my life when it comes to conflict. When I was really young, I would want to avoid conflict. So you could pretty much ask me to do anything as a kid to my older sister or cousins or whatever, and I would just get up and go do it. I was just very like, I want to be nice to people, and I want to please people
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 2:24

@everythingjay

So much of it is happening inside your mind to where the conflict truly arises. It's not so much with the individual, it's the thought of conflict occurring with the individual that may cause trepidation to which we keep our true feelings at bay. But you will find the more you are comfortable expressing it, the less you will be concerned with the conflict
@OmegaStrange
Demarkis Klan Destine
@OmegaStrange · 2:46
Yeah, I think arguing it arguing is like would you say that it's related to debating? Arguing and debating? Or would you jay that arguing is more of a it's less polish? Would you say that arguing is less polished than debating? Like, debating is a little bit more thought out? It's not as aggressive as arguing. I don't know the answer to that. Maybe you do, but I do kind of feel that arguing is a little bit more aggressive than debating
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:06

@OmegaStrange

I was on Quora and I wanted to see what they thought of a difference between an argument and a debate and I thought this was a great example arguments are like bar fights whereas debates are like boxing matches interesting, right? Some people have a good brawling style that services a bar fight. But some people brawl in a boxing match can get tired very quickly and can't last that many rounds. Technique also is very intriguing as well
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@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@FarikaB_Redux
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 5:00
Because we should probably do some research on this, but could you possibly burn calories arguing? You didn't think about that one. But I still say it's low vibrational as far as an emotional and human being aspect, because you still do lose sight of a person. But you're talking about how can it be done if done properly, if it could be healthy?
@FarikaB_Redux
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 4:08

@FryedOreo

But they are coming in with a train of thought, right? And a bar brawler is in and out quick, right? It's an adrenaline rush. It kicks in, they kick in. They do what they got to do and they're out. They're not sustaining 13 rounds of boxing, right? And I would say that that's the distinction of that makes sense, that even when you're in argument, they're not sustaining a train of thought
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@ilovelucee
Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 4:27
If we're going to share the same space and I really want you in my life like that, then I'm going to feel like I need to confront it. But other than that, I really try to let things go because people are dedicated to misunderstanding you. People are really obtuse. Like, they act like they don't get it. They want to stick to their way, want to save my peace and my energy. So I try not to unless I really have to
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:51

@FarikaB_Redux

But I tend to feel that arguing gets a bad rap, and it's often misunderstood when we look up for the definition of an argument, an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one, a reason or set of reasons given within the aim of persuading others that an action or idea is right or wrong. I feel there's a thin line between debating and arguing that takes place to which we often tend to sway
@FarikaB_Redux
Farika B Redux
@FarikaB_Redux · 3:11

@FryedOreo

No, I hear what you're saying but no, I don't agree in the sense of you said we're probably having more arguments than we are debates because debates are formal, you need a judge and all that other stuff in a denotation. Yes, here we go again. But in connotation people feel like they're having a debate because they feel like they're having a discussion and as it was described it you want to go to the denotation or the denotative definition of argument
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:44

@FarikaB_Redux

You. It's interesting. It has not taken on an argument form until now. Right. Because you disagree with what it is that I am saying in terms of an argument and what it is for, and even a debate in what that is for it. And that's interesting to me because it feels like some component is missing. What about discussion?
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@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 1:44

@ilovelucee

Welcome. Thank you for responding. Loose and you seem to be a person of growth and you make time for things that are valuable to you. So if you do need to expel that energy of argument arguments, like you said, you're going to choose wisely and carefully what it is that you want to talk about versus being a prisoner of the moment and of someone else's vitriol rather than something you personally resonate with. So don't worry, you'll survive. Really? That aggression, right?
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