Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:54
Doing things out of guilt!
Sometimes it brings them down to see certain people in a certain state. Sometimes a person avoids things if they feel powerless to be able to help in a way that they feel that they can help. Some people feel overwhelmed or feel like everything is piling up on them and they don't know what to do in order to keep things afloat
Chelsea Hanawalt
@allowthesun · 1:43
If you're not taking care of yourself, you can't take care of anyone else. And I am constantly working through that. So I just wanted to say you're not alone in this. I really appreciate you sharing this because, yeah, the guilt gets to me. And I think you really brought up a good point of that feeling
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 4:13
Thank you so much for responding. And it gets really real. Like, for me, I spent all of my 20s taking in family members, okay? So that was just allowing people to live with me. I've always been a person with a heart of gold, in my opinion. And I had a child at a young age. I got pregnant at 17. It drew my plans of going out of state for college and all that out of the water