Being the oldest sibling, we are the first to basically, we are the first ones to do everything what the parents are doing. That means all the advantages leniencies the parents are giving to the younger sibling middle siblings. Whoever it is, we never got them. Instead, we were the ones who had to lay the foundation, the downroad, whatever you are able to get. Now, it was because of us
But still, when I visit her home, I'm the one who's doing chores for her. So yeah, chores on the younger one. It's messed up in my house. And about the older one taking 50% of the blame. Completely true. The parents immediately think that the older one is a bad influence if something goes wrong with the younger one. And yes, the older ones do make things easier for us