And of course, you hit me with the whole what, and put your heart back together again? And that was sweet. But here's the thing. I really believe that I was born with a broken heart. And I'm not saying this as a woe is me. I'm saying this as, wow, I'm starting to realize this. And I believe that what's revealed can be healed
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:51
Somebody going to have to quit if we have issues because I could be mature enough, but it just depends on the issue. But he sounds like a sweet man. Sound like a little sweet little man that could maybe be a little awesome friend. But then sometimes people do have relationships and they work out and they're beautiful
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:51
So of course, I believe this as well. She said that I had a very strong iron gate up, and I barely let anyone in. She said, in essence, this is a good thing, but it also has its downside, like anything in life. So maybe that's what it has been. I haven't had my heart broken too many times. Maybe because I haven't invested it those too many times
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:03
And there were some other things that I realized I'm healed from just in being in that relationship. So I give that relationship the proper place in my life. I think it did what it was supposed to do. Right? Was he my forever love? No. But did it show me what I needed to see? It did, and so I'll take that lesson with me. As far as the guy at work. Yeah, I can't say I've never dated anyone at work before
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:52
Because I know what I need help with or healing with. So it's been all good. Some other things have been revealed to me this year too, and I'm like, whoa. But it's all good. And so this is something that's like, I definitely going to pray about it. Of course. Watch how I've been walking like, have I been walking like a person with a broken heart? Have I been living like a person with a broken heart?
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:56
And he aimed to create this dynamic that it was still only me, even though he had moved on and got this girlfriend. I'm going to have to do some. Several parts. Forgive me. I'll be your entertainment today. He moved on and started dating this girl. But instead of saying, this is my girlfriend or I like this woman, he made it seem like she was just a study partner. And I bought into it
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:28
I really wanted to see how frequently I could win time with him away from her. So when it got to the point where the guy got serious and wanted to propose, I was like, oh, shit, now the game is over. No, I didn't want to win. For real? For real. Conceptually, I like the concept of winning
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:52
Which I would tease him back and say, but I should be your only daughter unless you're a rolling stone. And we would have these deep, non superficial two three hour conversations to the point my phone is dying, and I have to plug it up and finish the conversation with him. That was the level of relationship we had to the time that he died. And so that was my heartbreak again. A second heartbreak to myself. The two heartbreaks are for me, because I really should have
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:27
Okay, I got to go because I got this patient. So the last one is major disappointment, which was my second marriage, because I thought that I had learned certain life lessons with my father's passing and being married before, and I didn't. And I believe that God allowed me, similar to job, to experience some of the things that I did briefly to really wake me up to say, okay, listen. This is who I've created you to be
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:09
And after a while, you go to your Bible, and I remember, but definitely the b portion of the fifth verse in psalms 30, it says that weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning. So in order to get to the joy, you have to go through the pain. And then at the same time, going flipping to the New Testament, the 14th chapter of John, the first portion of that first verse, it says, let not your heart be troubled
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 5:00
And as much as I've been healed enough to date and to be in relationships, it does scare me, because the ring is no guarantee. Okay, I got a husband now. We good? No. The husband I had, I had so much pain because this was my husband. This is not even my boyfriend. Why are you doing this to me? Why is this happening to us? And so I thank you for sharing your parts of the story about the broken hearts
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:28
It. I got cut off there. But what I was saying is that I wanted to try to summarize or encapsulate what you said and give you a proper reply. So if I missed anything then when I get settled in I'll listen again and make sure I respond to everything or that I address everything you mentioned. But thank you for sharing. And thank you that like you said, others who may hear it will find value in it as well. Thanks
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:13
I know we talked about a couple of swells of yours about nice guys finishing last, and I agree, they do. As well as nice women. Nice people finish last. I'm not perfect at all. I'm not even claiming that I'm perfect. And everybody else that I ever dated hasn't been perfect. That's not the
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:58
I forgot which one is called but it speaks about three stages in a relationship and stage number one is the euphoric stage which of course is the stage of excitement, the thrill, the curiosity trying to get to know a person, another person trying to get you. That's stage number one, the euphoric stage. It always tend to be the best stage. My time is running out so I'm going to do a part two. It
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
You could be healing from a number of different things that was experienced in the previous relationship. Now, when they go to another relationship, it start all over again. One, the euphoric stage, only to come across stage number two, which is the problem stage. Break up, go to another relationship. Henceforth the dance away lover or the runaway lover. And what happens is that this continues over and over and over again
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 1:59
I do like the second part of what you said, because I've had a broken heart a couple of times, and I don't think that you were born with a broken heart. I think it's what you said. Your heart was shattered into pieces the first time. And just like when you go have surgery, when a surgeon does surgery on you, and then they do surgery on you in the same area. And let me give you an example
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:19
Hey, mo, thanks for stopping by. I love everything you said. I love what you taught because I don't know if you realize it or not, but you're a teacher, and even in two parts of a swell, you dropped a lot of knowledge. Right. And so, yes, people can be suicidal because of a broken heart. And unfortunately, some people have unalived themselves because of a broken heart. I do believe you can die from a broken heart. I do
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 3:19
And so, with him, I did until stuff really started to happen that was like, okay. And beyond the problem stage, I did my due diligence with him, I think. Well, I know. And I did it beyond the expiration date. I stayed on a lot longer, but, sorry, a text popped up on my phone. I was reading it. But, yeah, I say that even in this last relationship, what I've learned is not to run
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:26
And he described it as, like, plastic that melted in the microwave. It's, like, not even soft anymore, and so you can't even get to it because of the other scars. That makes a lot of sense. And so thank you for that analogy. Example, thank you for your kind words. You made me smile listening to that. Just thinking about a love that is true, a love that is committed, a love sent by God, and a love that lasts
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:42
And of course, they leave you pondering and asking God lots of questions as to the why this is happening to me. But I also take ownership. Excuse me, I'm trying not to burp in your ear
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:39
We're going to start our family like my parents did, and we're going to be together. I had zero expectations of that, zero beliefs of that, because I kind of believed that life has shown me tears, and so I was ready to collect more tears. If I co sign that, then I'm going to experience that. But as I'm beginning to co sign something different, I believe I'll see something different. So thank you so much for chiming in. Appreciate
Darrain …
@TheBriefOne · 4:18
Why can't one's heart become a memento? Why can't it be cherished to that degree where it's like when it's in pieces and put together, it's even better. Why can't hearts be like Lego bricks? Why do they always have to be like clay? Why can't they have a little bit of rigidness, a little bit of toughness too?
Glenn Mann
@GlennPriceMann · 2:09
I think some people, when their heart is broken, they don't ever let themselves be put in that situation of being that vulnerable ever again because they say, hey, I don't want to feel that again. Or perhaps they've grown up with experience. They've seen a relationship, parents or someone else, and they're like, hey, I don't ever want to be in that position. I don't want to be that vulnerable
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 1:32
I listened to it this morning when I first woke up and I was like, let me hear it again now that I'm wide awake and give it justice because I love what you said about the glass being put together in japanese art with gold and even taking the pieces of my heart, putting it into hourglass and living by my own time. I just love everything you said. Thank you. Thank you so much
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 2:40
We got kids. So we've been through some things. And so some of them, when they're dating guys and some of the stuff they tell me, I'm like, you are rough. But I realize it's their way of protecting their heart. Whereas I think I go all in. I don't know. Apparently I have because I would say if you don't go all in, you're not going to get hurt, right?
Darrain …
@TheBriefOne · 1:10
Anytime. The fact that you gave me two listens is a plus. I can't believe it. I really can't. Like I've just been here a couple of days. I'm glad you liked it. You inspired it. So understand like you're talking to a person who just didn't want a broken heart anymore. And no, you don't sound whiny at all. Like you're honest
dee felton
@MrDee · 5:00
And I know it's very common to say, oh, woman, they've already thought about it. Da da da da. And, yeah, sometimes that is so. But everything wasn't lining up in my situation. 30 days prior to her telling me she wanted a divorce, we both just sat down and talked and agreed to refinance. Her house had just come off, a trip had just upgraded, wedding bands had a couple of vacations, all these different things