And so sometimes men are doing stuff that they know you shouldn't accept. They know it's not right, and they're wondering why you still accept it. You should have been broke up with them. They know you should have. But you keep accepting it and lowering your standards time after time. And so not only is he not in love with you, he's now lost respect for you. Now, mind you, this could be anyone. Could be a side piece or a sneaky link
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:40
You know what I mean? I don't know. We just got to stop that. And I'm talking to myself as I'm saying this, I'm talking to myself, we got to stop that because we are worth so much more and so we have to require these men if they're going to be in our life to give us everything that we're worth and if they can't give us everything we worth then peace out, homie. I'll holler back at you
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:36
And if a person always has an excuse on holidays, every holiday, every weekend, every birthday, things that are important to you, and they always have an excuse, then that's a red flag. I say it's a flag, too. If I meet a guy who's like, I don't really do holidays like that, he could not. But that's why I got to watch him. I got to watch him and see his patterns
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Shawna Kearsley
@OnAcornBay · 0:49
Happy day after Valentine's day to you. That was very funny. The side piece. But, you know, everyone's thinking about it, you know, their side piece day. We just don't talk about it. And I enjoyed how you brought it into the conversation and making it a little bit of a funny and then really just kind of getting the attention and laying that out. And it's about the love from within
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 0:45
And if you can make $30,000, why not go for the next promotion and make 40 and 50 and so on? And it's along that same line. If I'm going to come to work anyway, five days a week, 8 hours a day, why not make the most money that I can? I'm going to be out here like everybody else. Why not get the most benefit when it comes time to get that paycheck? So I love that. Settle for more
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 5:00
They like to be the one to come from behind. Come from behind. Victory. Some of the greatest success stories are premised on people clawing their way to the top, being down on their luck, going into a recluse and coming out on top. That's how it is with relationships. It is. It may not be every situation, I'm certain, but a lot of times this is what it is
Angela Kaye
@AnngieKaye · 4:58
Only when you're burning is yourself and probably your daughter, because your daughter is sitting right there, as you call her father, the enemy. And so we love to be the victim, and then we get sympathy, and we get the, oh, why did they leave you such a good person? We love to play that story out, too. So we want to be the one that holds on to the very end. And some people even want to be that person
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:01
To me, it's just over rated. I think I will say that on my particular timeline yesterday, I didn't really see a lot of Valentine's stuff. I saw a couple of couples that were celebrating their marriage anniversaries on Valentine's Day. And so, of course I wish them happy anniversary and a few pictures of people doing fun things. But for the most part, nothing. Even from married people? Nothing much
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 1:11
Hey, Ms. Coles. How are you? I know Valentine's Day has passed, but in your post you said we're getting too old to care about Valentine's Day. Now, I'm in my late 40s, but from a male perspective, you're a man and you're dating somebody or you're married and you say that to your woman, you're not going to get a good response