So something to be added on, something that's already been cooked, it's already been prepared, it's already been in the oven for the amount of time that it should have been in. So even without the icing, the cake itself is still good
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:56
I don't know if it's from a space of comfort, but then when I say what I said, they were like, oh yeah, I agree with that. In my head I'm thinking, well, if that's your experience, then speak your truth. Don't just say, yeah, it's horrible, dating sucks. So what I said after three of the women talked about it, I said, you know what? I'm not having that experience
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:52
I said, I think what happens, both men and women, but speaking more so on behalf of women as a part of that conversation with the women from Friday, I said what I think happens this is my belief is that when it comes down to an intimate relationship, people meet people with the expectation, and that's where disappointment comes from. They meet with the expectation that it's going to already be something
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:57
That's just what I'm listening to in regards to observation saying like, oh, the date was good, or if it was bad or something like that. So when you get around your friends or your peers, your buddies, I understand you have a certain way of expressing what you felt about it, but then at the end of the day, you have to ask yourself, is that really what happened? Do I want to put the real truth out there?