Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 4:28
STOP Targeting ppl!!
And sadly, there are some people that did a lot of things to me more emotional than physical. And sadly, they're not here. They're either locked up for the rest of their lives or they went 6ft under. Because what happened is they just chose the wrong person to target or the wrong group of people to target. And that's why I was saying stop targeting people
Blacc Queen
@BlaccQueen · 4:15
I limit my engagements with people, whether it's a new relationship or old relationship. I limit how I interact, how many times I'm around them. Fortunately, I'm retired now and I could truly pick and choose who I could tolerate. So now I flip that coin. Instead of being targeted, I actually target who I want to deal with. I am working on self, I'm working on me
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 3:24
I was a teacher assistant and a substitute teacher roughly from the years of 2006 to 2018, on and off while between jobs and such. And I just seen a lot when it comes to the parents, the students, a lot of them are not the parents nor the students are socialized very well to handle their aggression. They don't learn or don't know healthy ways to express themselves
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 1:55
So I was definitely able to gather that. And you telling your personal story how you said how sometimes you still go through things, but at the same time, what happens is once you get into a space where something or someone is going to just destroy your spirit, then that's how you have to well, you feel as though it makes you a target. But then you make yourself less of a target when move away from all of that
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:13
But my point is, again, it's like if we all doing things and God will be going to be around later, again, you don't know how it's going to affect people's lives, whether it's going to be good or bad toward the end. That's why I was saying stop targeting people. And again, I always tell you to stay blessed and keep inspiring. Again, thank you for your reply
Andrea Potvin
@GoodEnough · 2:52
You. So this topic really made me think of the saying hurt people, hurt people. So I do think that it's important to personally look at working on your hurts, your own personal hurts, and then you're more likely to try to understand somebody else's hurt and where they're coming from. I think this can and should be taught from childhood on, sort of treat people how you want to be treated type of thing
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:05
And it's very important because what happens is a lot of times you have people that do want to help others get through things, but at the same time they're in situations and circumstances where they can't really help themselves. So to get themselves off of what's going on in their lives, they tend to block the other people's lives. But again, it's about self love first and foremost