Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:36
Emotion vs Logic
But at the end of the day, what happens a lot of time is when you make your final decision on what you decide you want to do, what happened. And men are guilty of this as well, too. Maybe not as much as the women, but we're guilty of it as well. We make our decisions based on emotions. Like, okay, this happened, that happened. But what happens after that is we just make a brush decision
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 1:18
So for you to just own up to the fact that you're the one that's emotion, logic, your wife is the one that's lodging, that's a cool thing, too. So there's nothing wrong with the roles. I guess that's what you want to call the roles being switched, anything. That's pretty cool, though. So, again, blessings to you and your wife. And again, thanks for the reply
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 2:30
Me and my sister were raised by our father, our mother, of course, she was in our life as well. That's another story. But I used to always love going to my father for advice, because I know he's going to give solutions, workable steps and things like that. And if I'm emotional about something, he was like, okay, the emotional part, that's fine. Let's see how we can problem solve. And that's how my husband is too
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 2:00
Hey Erica, how are you doing now? Cosby and I just feel just so privileged and honored right now for the simple fact when you say you always just look forward to hearing what my Swell cast is going to be about, that's a real privilege and honor as I just mentioned, and I feel privileged and honored in turn just to hear your reply
Erica Jean
@HeyItsErica · 1:24
Hey, Al. Yeah, sometimes people can have a difference of opinion. Just like on my Medium blog, I've had to block several people because their opinions turned into something darker. But everyone else who tend to think differently and keep it respectful and classy and sweet, I definitely money don't block them because I still like learning from people who have just a different thought about things. That's how we learn
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 0:49
But yeah, like you said, it's all about learning from each other, and it's all about reaching a point of consent in regards to our opinions and just being respectful at the end of the day. And at least you recognize that. I recognize that. And sadly for some people I don't want to say all, but some people that have decided to use swell in just any other median. They feel as though their opinion is the only opinion, but that's another story
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:20
But as a whole, the way that we're designed generally the feminine species, in my opinion, is it's going to be a little more emotional. It doesn't always fit. You're always going to have your different people and your different states of emotion and how they were raised and what they were taught was okay and not okay. The things they'll show people, the things that they won't. But I totally get where you were going or where you were coming from with this theory
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 1:57
But at the same time, some time when things I don't want to say fall apart, but when people have to split and be away from each other do the more. So that's when decisions should be maybe logical from that point on, what's going to make me better in regards to the circumstance? And if you have a family, what's going to make the family better about things? So I think that's what happens in the end