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Myron dawsey
@CircleCityTrap · 1:33

Commitment/ trust issues

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Are you so caught up that you don't want to be hurt again, that you find any problem with any flaw that that person might have that make you run from the relationship or a good friendship? Also, guys, I'm starting to see lots of people with trust issues out here, stuff that they've been through, and I think lots of stuff that we go through in life. I think they are life learning lessons that we supposed to learn from

#commitment #trustissues

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@jsmwang
J Wang
@jsmwang · 2:54
I'm in a new relationship, and I realized I do have I never called them trust issues, but for me, it was so hard. It is so hard to kind of let go and be vulnerable. I have such a strong sense of terrifying fear of just being vulnerable and letting my guard down. And it's worth it in the end, too. It's something that everyone has to work through often. You have to work through it together because both people both have trust issues oftentimes
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@KatphishMinnie
Minnie Emiliana
@KatphishMinnie · 3:21

#forgiveness #overcomer #healing #freedom

And it's hard when the person is constantly giving a piece of themselves every new relationship, even if it's a friendship, if you're constantly giving yourself away piece by piece and not healing and learning to forgive and let go. But also use wisdom so you'll be able to see those red flags later on, so you won't be going through that same endless cycle
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@kylecrossman
Kyle Crossman
@kylecrossman · 2:23
And I think that helps you gain clarity when you end up going out to try and seek out another person or meet someone else that you think you might have a connection with and really understand what it is you're looking for. I definitely agree that everything is a life lesson. And like you said, you can't be afraid of those life lessons. You just have to really try and learn from them. And there are also a lot of issues with trust afterwards, which is totally understandable
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@energyboast8
summer Kim
@energyboast8 · 3:02
But I agree the part that in order for us to I think the majority of the time about the trust issue is you have to look within, you have to learn that if you don't even trust yourself, how are you going to trust others? I think a lot of people that I can't speak for others but so far the people I've dated. I've been with
@zaireukuu
Zaire Ukuu
@zaireukuu · 2:24
But for me, the overall idea of it as far as commitment and I guess trustee is true and relationships is that for me, you have to know what you already want or what to expect or what you want from a person or a partner, you know what I'm saying? And if they exude those qualities, then you know what I'm saying, you have a higher chance of not having those commitment or trust issues
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