@chitchatwithkk
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:07

How would you spend your day if you woke up one morning with all of your problems solved?

You had the perfect relationship. Your kids were obedient and weren't fighting. You had a butler in your kitchen to cook everything that you desired. You had a bank account that was full of millions of dollars for you to go and travel and come as you please. You had the house of your dreams, the cars of your dreams. You had the family of your dreams. You could pretty much do whatever you wanted. You had no problems, no arguments with anyone

#askswell #life #thoughts

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R. Porchia
@Block24Media · 1:06

@chitchatwithkk

So as long as we're breathing air, I think we will always have some sort of issues or problems that we must face and stare down and back them down into a corner. Because without problems, we will not evolve or grow as humans. So there are a certain amount of problems that are needed for this life to be what this life has to be for us and to help us raise the little ones right? Because without adversity, there is nothing to really teach them
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:19
Hey, thanks so much for responding. I want to go to Bora Bora, too. I love to travel, so definitely that will be on my list. After I came out of shock, I would probably be in shock for so long that by the time that I realized I didn't have any problems, they'd be back. Like you said, it's a natural part of life and we have to have it to grow and to become who we're meant to be
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Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 4:30
So that's what I would do. Try to figure out everybody else's problems. Try to enjoy myself just a little bit. But what I'm doing in the meantime is trying to help, because that's what my life is. I don't want my life to be in vain. I don't want to die. And nobody remembers who I am. I don't want to die. And nobody says, you know what? She was a good person
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@MsColes77
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:50
So that means I don't have to work anywhere. I don't have to worry about how much the spa is going to cost because all the other bills are paid. Everything is taken care of. I'm at peace with everybody. I'm not beefing with anyone. That would be amazing. I would take myself to the spa and I would have an all day spa day for myself. Get into the mud tub and all that stuff
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@Andrea_Speaks
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:18

@chitchatwithkk

We would have mental health groups. We would have addiction groups. We would have a job class that I probably would teach that, the job class, like, how to interview and resume writing within themselves and stuff like that. So, yeah, I would like to open up something like that. I would definitely give a lot of. I would. I would give my pastor whatever he needed to fix up our church and do all the stuff that he wanted to do at our church
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:57
But you've already done something to help prolong that life after you're gone, because it's going to live through your children. It's going to live through your husband. If you have siblings, it's going to live through them. Your sister. It's going to live through people you work with and people that you just see at the grocery store. Because people see you, whether you realize they do or not. People are always watching, and there's always someone admiring you
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 2:41

@MsColes77

I'm going to go, like, how about. I don't know, but the spa. Pampering yourself is good, though. Pampering yourself is good. But, yeah, I can definitely picture you in that bath and sit and lay back on that chair with your cucumber pills on your eyes. A good massage, too. A good massage does wonders. And a Reiki. I don't know if you ever had one of those but Reiki sessions
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:40
And my friend had a therapist for a little while until he thought he didn't need to go. But like I told him, he need to go because that's a long time to be in there. And he still struggles with things today. He'll still say, hey, nobody helped me. Nobody was there. But he's wrong. He's wrong. And I can tell you that for sure. But there's a lot of people and then helping your church? Yes
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@LadyFi
Evelyn Phipps
@LadyFi · 0:56

@chitchatwithkk

Because it ain't never been about me. And I don't think it ever should be. I mean, I get things not like that. I feel like I have more to give than I need to receive. And I'm grateful for that. And you. But I'm grateful for you. And I'm going to get off here before I start crying again. Thank you
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Richard Taliaferro
@richtaliaferro · 1:22
And just to take that one day, for example, that one day is just like, and just maybe, I don't know, sit outside for a while and not have to worry about anything or just take a walk and not have to stress and that much, which is feel great. So thanks for the question. Appreciated it. And. Yeah, thank you
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 1:22

@LadyFi

And I still struggle with it to this day because I'm so used to picking up and carrying on because I didn't have anybody to lift me or to help me along my journey because I journeyed along for, well, probably about 98% of it. So I understand you completely. But we larie special and we're here. And if it wasn't for us being here, a lot of people would give up
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:49
Good morning, Rich. Thanks so much for responding. And you're right. Like, life doesn't allow us to relax. So if we got the money, we should do so. I would definitely relax. But after I come out of my dream, you know, because I wouldn't believe it. You know, I would not believe it. It would take a little while for me to adjust, but once I adjust it, I would definitely relax and do a whole lot of traveling
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Priya kashyap
@Priya_swell_ · 1:31
So that you could learn more and more from your life. Because when there will be no any learning in the life it will really create a void in your life. It will really create a void which will be of nothing which will be just useless to you. So I think if a day will be there without any problem and all the problems which I was having will be solved then I'll be the happiest person of the world
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Elizabeth Hoover
@elliehoovs · 2:56
And if all my problems were solved, then I would just focus on that and enjoy the heck out of it and make all my kids dreams come true. And if I could, it
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:41
Hey, thanks so much for responding. But anything can happen, right? So even if the title of the swell seems like that is far from at your fingertips, miracles do happen. Miracles do happen. So keep believing. But, yeah, what you said, it sounds really fun about what you would do. You're going to prevent yourself from getting in the situation again. I. That's how we grow. That's how we learn and we grow and we continue to magnify
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 0:35
Things are price, see, and kids do love to experience different things, so I know you'll get to experience that with them, even without everything being wonderful in life. So thanks so much
@NeophyteSavant
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:46

@chitchatwithkk

That'd be nice. But I would feel better if I was to wake up and some of my problems was gone. And the ones I'm talking about. I would like to be able to be the one to choose which one I would like to be. Yeah. So other than that, thank you for this, Keith. It's late, but I'm trying to catch up on a lot of swells. Have a great day
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Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:05

@NeophyteSavant

So, okay, I'm just not that girl. And it was what he wanted me to do, and I just wasn't there. So he left his phone charging in my car, and we talked almost every day. It was nice. He wasn't actually what I'm attracted to, but I looked past it and I was willing to see his heart. But he didn't look that much past the situation that he wanted
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