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One thing I will say that I like about our relationship, whether it's friendship or romance, which we're not in the romance era right now because I decided that that's not where he's not on that level whereas I was on that level. He was not because of past trauma, he was questioning things. And I also have some past trauma but I am ready to put that past trauma behind me in order to get the things that I desire in life
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 3:56
Hey, SIS, I agree with you. I have a naturally loud voice. I guess it's a strong voice, if you want to call it that. But I'm like you. I get passionate. And the things that I'm passionate about, it doesn't necessarily mean that I'm angry or upset
Brandon Taylor
@BT26 · 4:59
No, you have to be like, oh, for real, okay, I'm hearing what you're saying, and I'm obliged to it. But that's just the basic parts of communication anyway, especially in a relationship, if you know somebody for that long. But yeah, that's just my take on it
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:59
But as I become an adult, I don't see people for what they can give me. I just want to make sure that a person can understand me and can get me mentally. And that's one level that we are on. But something just doesn't click us together. It just doesn't allow it. Like it's kind of hard to get there. But if it's men, it will be. But communication and friendships is important too
Kitha Larie
@chitchatwithkk · 4:53
I don't want to go home and be laying in the bed at night and be thinking about what you said and why I need to process right then. The sooner the better. And whereas my friend, he will like sometimes he won't say anything and he'll go and he'll wait a little bit and he'll come back and be like, you know, I didn't like what you said the other day. And I purposely say, what did I say?
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Luce Fonrose
@ilovelucee · 1:50
Just because I'm opposing what you're saying or voicing how I feel about something, doesn't mean that I'm trying to argue. You should want to hear what I'm saying. Because when that happens, that's when the relationship gets better. That's when we progress. But if we try to sweep things under the rug or people can't express how they feel, it's going to be a problem. And then all of a sudden, that's when the relationship starts failing
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