So I'm not a stranger to mental illness, and it taught me a lot of patience over the years. But aside from that, like I said, he's a sweet person, and he had a lot of issues. I'll just say that I don't know. I felt like we were getting along really good. We weren't together that long, just a couple of months. But when you spend a lot of time with that person in a short period of time, you get close
Zara Lisbon
@ZLisbon · 4:45
Or also, sometimes I think people will say they want closure and really what they mean is their pride has been hurt and they want a sense of their pride back. And so when I'm in your situation, instead of trying to get closure, I just focus on taking care of myself and my needs and treating myself with more respect than ever, more love than ever, and taking space from the person who hurt me and spending time with people who are good to me
Hi, Candy. Welcome to Swell. I don't have any relationship advice or tips. I've never, I guess, never been in a relationship. But I just wanted to welcome you and say that your feelings are valid and Swell is a safe space for you. And I applaud you for being vulnerable and having the courage to share your stories. Bye
Bolanile O
@Bolanile · 4:50
Don't waste any energy, don't reach out again, don't even look back go full stream ahead and keep looking for it and meeting new people the great thing is now we're in spring, we're going into summer. It's a great time for you to meet more people, go out your favorite locations, do your favorite activities maybe the supermarket and just try to meet people outside and go on as many dates as you can