And if that is not the case, if my kid is not okay, the difference between her and myself is that she wants to fix it. If my kid is not okay in terms of me, I'm going to let her not be okay. And we can work out our feelings and what is really going on. Not being okay, in my mom's eyes was, dare I say it, imperfection in a sense, but more so, she wanted to fix it. She is a fixer