But if you want to take the kids because I know the kids haven't seen each other, and the kids have nothing to do with the fact that I and old girl aren't talking. If you want to take them, I don't feel like I don't see anything wrong with it. I don't have no ill will towards her. She was like, well, that would be disloyal, especially if you haven't had a conversation
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:58
There are people that invited me to things that my other family wasn't invited to. I don't care. That has nothing to do with our relationship. Our relationship is solid, right? Just because me and that other person fell out, our relationship is solid. And that's how I think about when people say, I'm not going to go because I didn't want to cause any drama. How is it drama?
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:40
However, sometimes I think my sister's sense of things is little bit warped because I told her, I said, I'm not disrespecting your perspective of loyalty, but you're not about to project your views of loyalty on me because this is how you're going to move in the situation. I wish I would have knew how to explain differentiate the difference between loyalty and trust in that same conversation because I think maybe she would have understood it better the way you put it. Like, dogs are loyal
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 2:35
And oftentimes people project their insecurities or their own personal demons out on other people, and it's just like, miss me with all that BS, right? So we got to be better as a dump. Okay. I love that. That's like an old person. My dad always used to say, I know that's. Right. And he don't he didn't agree with you. He disappeared. You right. I'm not going to go. Well, that's your choice
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:55
I've started to loosen the reins on that understanding that people come and go, wax and wane. And just like I might consider them my go to person, they also have a go to person. And then that person has a go to person. And things that I may say in private to them, I say it understanding, it will be repeated. That's actually a concept of that my parents raised me on
Eluchianna Olive
@Luchianna · 4:02
You are just in it to win it and your feelings get in the way and next thing you know, you're all f***** up. You're all over the place. You're not really committed to anything because especially for women, we're emotional and we're driven by our emotions some days, right? Good, bad or indifferent, we're just in it. But not necessarily. Men don't but men are committed to their barber
Braxxton Brown
@Br33zy · 4:33
Like with my situation that I've had at the beginning of the year and everything, I'm speaking on said person, but I'm speaking on how I feel in the series of events, but not once have I ever spoke badly on this person
Blair Redmond
@blairbearing · 3:14
It. Hey, Breezy, I just wanted to touch on something that you said because I thought it was super powerful. When your last response, you were saying that I'm not saying anything that I wouldn't be able to say to that person's face. And that is so a huge thing, and I need to gather my thoughts. So I'm going to pause this and I'm going to come back and speak on that
Teresa Shanell
@teresashanell · 1:15
You. Hey, Mr. Braxton. This is it's. Theresa Chanel. Oh, no. I feel what you're saying. I understood the story, but it seemed like sister your sister, she ain't got to the level of understanding that part yet. It sometimes take a while for people to get it and to understand thinking and to see situations in a different light. And sometimes people ain't got there yet. So not to say it's the test of loyalty