So just thinking that you're giving too much, it's just like feeling that you're extra or feeling like you need that love back. I think it's right. It's like kind of a humor, right. To receive whatever you're putting, but accepting that you would receive it from people, that's just something I feel like I don't agree with, because, honestly, I'd be giving not to receive from people, but to receive from God or the universe
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 1:38
It's a real empty hole because you're giving out, but there's nothing to give. And that person is getting sort of negative energy because where are you sourcing that from? How do you put that out there? But yeah, I think the most beautiful thing is to sort of be cheap, to cheap looking forward and not disappearing into each other's eyes. But that connection, that has a forward motion for both of you as individuals. Very poetic of you
When you love yourself truly, you're just giving it the best that you can, caring and respecting and everything. Then that just makes it so much easier for you to love people unconditionally. Like how you unconditionally love yourself without just trying to wait to receive back or anything. And also with your life in general. It's let's move over to South Carolina
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Chelsea Hanawalt
@allowthesun · 3:23
But over the years, through my self love journey and self growth, I really found it so important to balance, like you say, your energy and not even just in romantic relationships, but any relationship that you're in and always coming back to yourself and making sure that, yeah, you're giving the same amount of energy and attention you are to others in your life, to yourself. And I think that was a big lesson for me
Wow. Thank you for this beautiful message. Yeah, I totally agree. It's kind of the intention behind loving people, including yourself, is that like, you don't want there to be kind of like an ulterior motive. It's like I'm loving this person so that they'll love me back, which at the end of the day becomes unhealthy, I guess, because nothing will ever be equal. And also, I think people express and accept love in different ways
Abdou Abdel
@Abdou · 0:42
Well, hello. Actually, she left me for a password of snapchat. Password? She told me that if I I didn't give her the password, she will leave me after six months relationship. I don't know how it came, but I giving too much is sometimes a hard thing. Thank you