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Have you ever seen relatives coming to your house and instantly asked you questions about your life? Like mask, Sydney, a yakka Chelsea. And to start comparing you with their children. They're not even concerned about the festival or the celebration when they come to, but they are more concerned about your life. I personally want to share my experience. My poor result was not that good
And I give out power to everybody who's going through this because this is a really sensitive thing in an Indian culture. They don't understand or take a note of because they just assume that if somebody is trying to question you like this, you have to reply them with your great marks. You have to reply them with whatever they're expecting from. And it's so questionable scenario. And the only questions we have in our head is just why?
I did reply about it in someone, so I don't remember who it was, but yeah. Anyway, this is my experience agents and I think everyone has such toxic relatives. It's just about if our parents listen to them or not
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 0:16
I think everyone will rate on this topic so much because everyone have relatives like this. Even I have experienced this. They always try to put you down by comparing you with your cousin. And yes if they are mean to you then you have all the rights stuck our demo
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:39
Hi DB, I hope you are doing great. And you know what the worst part of this is that we have been always told you have to respect your elders no matter what. Even if they are degrading you, even if they are saying mean things to you or even sarcastically, you have to respect them and we are not allowed to pay anything like no we can't
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:25
Hi, Patees. I hope you are doing today. And you know, everyone has these kind of relatives who have been very toxic to us. They mean things or compare us with different kids or even their kids. And they don't care about it. Their only concern is put down correct. And I don't understand what they get in return
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:17
Hi, Kimmen. Yes. You know, if they are being mean to us or saying mean things, we have a right to hurt them off. Yes. We should not have to entertain them on their this kind of behavior. We can make distance. And thank you so much for applying
Thank you for putting out this topic because it should be discussed. I mean your relatives, relatives, yoga, John, Katya. I mean my relatives come and tell my mum what I should wear and I'm like, you don't get to tell me what I should wear and what I should not. So Merato Bohr the toxic relationship have relatives. They are too noisy, they are too concerned about mirrors and I'm not interested in telling anyone what I'm doing, what I'm not doing
vaibhav behl
@vaibhavbehl · 1:23
Okay. Toxic relatives, to be honest, are the worst. I wouldn't name them, but not like the result. They were the first woman, I think, you know, came to me and I thought maybe they were or my friends, maybe they were good. And I talked to the police, to be honest, I don't like them, but
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:30
Hi Fisher. So you bring out the sandal, right. Today, let's release on what we wear. And they tell us what should be wear, what would be appropriate for us. Even such a commonly what is skinny, what is bedroom who say stuff like that. And I think we should not entertain them. We should not let them say whatever they want to
Bipasha Sehrawat
@bipashaa · 0:34
Hi Veffer. Yes, you are right. We just want to compare ourselves with our kids, become always, no matter what we do. And as you said, yes, we are so thank you so much for your time
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