I never really had a reason to actually leave. I never felt like, d***, I want to be on my own until I got older. And circumstances have been put in place. Now is where, since the end of this year, I've been doing what I had to do to put myself, applying myself

Needed to express these thoughts

@DBPardes
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 3:56

@BIGGIRLTALK360

The other thing I do really quite often is I watch movies where I know the character in that movie is inspiring to me. How they speak, how they move through life, how they love. And I watch those movies, maybe even again, to remind myself of what sparks in me because of that character. And that's a free thing to do, and it's an easy thing to do, and it's at our fingertips because of streaming content these days
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J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:08
Try five minutes, ten minutes, 15 minutes. Allow yourself to really go there and fall emotionally on a soul level. Once you do that, breathe through it. Hold space for yourself. Do the things that you need to do to comfort yourself. I wouldn't recommend having important tasks to do immediately afterwards, because you would need to really give yourself some self care after you do that. Then your next step is to say, what is it that I am?
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Ophelia Johnson
@LadyO · 4:46

I accept the challenge...let's find your path

And I had to learn that everyone loves differently and I had to forgive my mother for that. So what I would say to you is the first step is forgiveness. Forgive your mother for not giving you that love that you needed. Forgive yourself for feeling like you haven't done what you feel like you need it to do. And I'll tell you something about fear. Fear is the killer of all dreams. Fear will take away your entire life
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Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 5:00
I don't blame her for anything. But people will not sell me the whole that's all they knew because that's all I knew. And let me tell you, each and every day of my parenting, I step back and I reflect. I have conversations with my son because that's what I never had. I allow him to express himself freely because that's what I never got a chance to do. I tell them I love them every day because that's what I never got
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lashonda walton
@Trap_Formation7 · 5:00

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He can't do nothing with our material things, our clothes, shoes, here. He can't do nothing with that. But he can play with our brain. We got to face Hail head on and get back everything he thought he saw. Because understand this you have power. As soon as you wake up, the power is activated. It's on you. What you're going to do with so I want you to speak this scripture over your life. Just try for a week
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lashonda walton
@Trap_Formation7 · 4:14

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My apologies, I was cut off. But when we're talking about motivating ourselves, that's right up my alley. I'm a health and wellness coach. You know, I teach men and women all over the world in my group, you know, how to become more healthier and keeping everything in alignment, your physical, mental and emotional state. Health is wealth and it goes hand in hand
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