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Like their best friends, or maybe their mothers, their sisters, their brothers. So if you have that person with you now, just share that thing with that person. Talking about it will give you peace. Talking about it will make you feel better. And if you don't have it's, fine. Write it down. Write it down on a paper or in your notebook or anything. And then just tear it off. It will give you peace
Simran Sehrawat
@simrannnn · 1:16
Hi, Bhavya. So great. Swell. I have not personally got that crazy crush on someone. Like, I don't get feelings. Crushes? Crush feelings are like two different things for me I have so I had my first crush in, I think eight class and he was my boyfriend. So I was crazy obsessed with him and I was friends with him. And then it turns we got into a relationship and then we broke up
Abhishek P.M
@Ab_22 · 1:15
So that staying away from your friend who you have a crush on, actually help you in long term, or is it just going to ease you in short term? I understand what you were saying and I understand that it can mess up with your sanity, but still, just staying away and not dealing with it actually helped. What I would like to say is it is better to talk it out and deal with it to get a long term solution out of it
Swell Team
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Divya Bhatia
@Anastasia_9 · 1:01
Because crying does not make a person weak like people do say that crying makes you a weak person. Like, you are very weak. It's nothing like that. If you want to cry, do cry. Never listen to people ads. They are not the people who can take decisions in your life. You are the one who will take decisions and only you. So if you want to cry, do cry
He has amazing blow up and I wish he was great in his life. But that part of you which knows, okay, this was the first crush I ever had, just just would never accept that you ever got over that person. So that is really weird and I agree to whatever you're saying, but it's kind of sort of weird and nice that we don't really ever get over something that we hold so close to us unless we really want to
Anjali talks
@Anjuuu · 2:37
So I think getting over them is very difficult because you don't know how that person is feeling about you and you have this fear like if you express something to them, you might get rejected and if you get rejected, you again take it to your heart and all mind and we never know what happens. So we fail to express our feelings to our crushes. And this is very quite common and I just think that the very very difficult part is like getting a crush on a stranger
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