Carly D
@Astroality · 4:37
People wanting to change you v. People supporting your healing… 💚💚
Hi sweet souls. I hope you're having a fantastic week so far. I just wanted to hop on for a few minutes and talk about changing others, changing ourselves. And the difference between someone who wants to change you and someone who wants to help you heal because they are very different things. So be mindful of connections that come into your life, whether it's work connections, romantic connections, whether it's family or friends
Rocío (Ro) Christensen
@rocio · 0:49
But it is hard if you get close to somebody who's wanting to change you and then they realize they don't like how you're changing. It can be tough to get out of that situation. So? Yeah. I don't know. It's really interesting to think about and definitely something to look out for
Carly D
@Astroality · 2:43
And I love that you said people get triggered because that just happens so much and then it almost ends up traumatizing you more because you were just trying to heal yourself. And people get triggered and they kind of put all that on you. It becomes almost this like, blame situation. Like they're blaming you because they got triggered by the way that you're trying to heal or trying to grow or trying to just change yourself