All you know are photos and reflections. Sometimes the hair works, the skin glows. But does that mean you are more likable? Or does that have the opposite effect due to a lack of self awareness? Supposedly because you thought your looks will discount that. No. You aren't that lucky. For others, yes, it works. Absolutely, it does. All red flags are ignored. Potential toxic behavior is shut off and multiple chances are given. Why? That is the question