Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
You can choose not to date a Single Mother or Father. But you don’t have the right to belittle them.
And so that's a whole nother swell, but he said he's a high value man, and he just doesn't want to date a single mother. And so as a single mother of a son, as someone who raised my son primarily without his father being in the home, let me say it that way. I took offense to it, and maybe I shouldn't, but I did
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 4:57
So he's right in that sense that you do have choices. Now, I agree that there has been belittling of single mothers in this. He's got to be manusphere. As soon as you said high value man, I was like, yeah, he's in the red pill community. But there has been a belittling of single mothers lately in those spaces where men don't want the responsibility of another man's child
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:56
It's. Thank you. Assist, as always, for replying. And here's the thing. I guess it just offended me because not because I'm a single mother, because I made my choices. And I could have made other choices as well, but I didn't. I didn't want to. And so I understand, you know, where he was coming from. I totally got where he was coming from
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 3:22
You. Hi, Andrea. I seen this show and it was a bit disturbing for me because, like you mentioned, his mom was a single mother. And once I thought about it for a minute and I viewed his demeanor and the way he was coming across, not being graceful, not being passionate or to me, not even understanding, not even trying to understand, like, my mind is made up and this is it, which is fine
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:55
And so we do. We just have to think about the words that we say and things that we say. And I'm all for people choosing to date who they want to date, right? That is your choice. You can choose. And it ain't even about dating. You choose who you want to have in your life. You do
Adriane
@Royalcapability · 4:17
And like you said, that stuff follows you. And I know social media is probably eating him alive, because I'm sure a lot of people took offense to it, and probably some males, too, because their mom was a single parent. And I don't think it's just females. I think it's male and females. And when you were speaking about watching more of what we say as an adult, yeah, we're absolutely right
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:41
It's really unfortunate because there are some good men who they just need somebody to talk to, and unfortunately, they end up with women who don't really allow them the space to be vulnerable and to talk like that, and so they never end up getting it out, and then they ended up doing all kinds of stuff. But, yeah, I hope he gets some help. I hope he gets some counseling or something like that for his unresolved trauma
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:10
That's a conversation he needs to have with himself and with the woman who is his mother so that he can do some deep inner healing. And of course, even after that healing, he still has the right to make the decision to not date a woman with children. And it's from a space of it's just not my preference versus from inner hate