Why has such roles been reversed since, I don't know, probably even before me? I don't know if I sound like I'm all over the place, I deeply apologize, but I just kind of wanted to know, like, what is it with dating and courtship in 2022? Are you guys experiencing the same thing? And then on top of that, with the online dating thing, do you really find exactly what you're looking for?
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:04
Interesting perspectives that you had there. And I would first like to know what would you consider red flags or signs that a person is acting weird, as you say, a because you've said the guys that you meet ask for your number and you all talk and you all meet up or whatever and do something, hang out, whatever it may be, go on a date. So I'm curious as to what is your experience like with that?
As far as online dating, I have some reservations only because I still feel that even though you physically see that person or you can FaceTime and you can read their profile and things of that nature, you still may not get that honesty from that person. Because I feel like sometimes some people have so many things to hide and maybe they're hiding it from me to seem more attractive or along the lines of what would interest me more, I don't know
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:12
I would imagine if you are kind of getting serious with somebody, you mentioned it a little earlier, but yeah, I don't know. Because you're saying you're meeting these people in person, right, not online dating. So that's fascinating to me that they would kind of withhold that information because I'll admit I don't do too much of the in person dating. I don't think that's happened to me in many years, actually. Usually it's online
And that with him not being within close proximity of me or driving distance, it pushed me to think that he's going to find somebody better than me and instead of me being mature enough to tell him that I cheated. And what the second relationship that caused me to cheat was the fact that I was experiencing or I was exploring being in a poly relationship. And I noticed that my boyfriend at the time would find women for us to possibly pursue
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 3:22
So I find that I tend to want to pursue a woman of my taste rather than me wait around for a woman that I desire because it just will never happen. I'm too impulsive and strategic to just sit around and wait. So my day and life has been okay. It's not the best at the moment, but I'm still a work in progress with other aspects of my life and once I feel those start to come together, so will the dating pool choices