Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 2:56
Why are women expected to be caretaker of children and not father's?
So this is my opinion that is causing a problem and creating such big problems for women. I want to know your opinions. So do reply and share your views and thoughts. And do tell me do you agree with me or not? Thank you
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:52
Hey Anchor, I hope you are doing great and I really like the viewpoint you have raised and what I feel is it has been followed from ages wherever women are suppressed and men are treated as a dominating one. But I feel first of all while there are families who are like this, that is a dying trend. Of course more family today are opted to split the workload in half as both partners are now working
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 3:20
I think it's absolutely right that both the parents, the woman and the man need to the woman and the man need to come forward in their responsibilities for their child. I think just the mother doing everything isn't the right thing to do. I think the effort is not to be just made by the man, but by the society as well
Palak Jain
@palakjain · 0:19
I think the root cause of this problem is the stereotype thinking which is containing its legacy since old times and the only solution for it is education of all the individuals, whether it be male or or female to shape up demands in a more broader horizon
Sreejita Karmakar
@belle · 1:50
Yes, women should not be seen as objects of women should not be seen as people who work as caretakers or people who have a place in the family only and not in the world, of course. But yeah, I think society is changing and we can only hope that these changes, they prevail. And we see that every household in India has normalized fathers taking care of children, too. That's the aim. But let's see, it is a long way to go. Go
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:37
And if every woman in our society does this, a lot of improvement can be done through this. So thank you so much for sharing. I hope you like my swell
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 1:00
If a small child sees it, it just shows this that the woman has to wait for her husband and then feed her husband and take care of the children, send the children to school, do all the household course, this is how that people perceive it because they see it and it has been seen through ages. And we have to break this trend. We need to break this trend. So thank you so much for replying. I hope you like my swing. And
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 1:21
Hello Palak. I hope you are doing good. And yes, education will help at some point because you know what happens is that in our country most of the parents raise their children to be a good, good daughter in law. They just say that you have to be this way. You have to work in this way. You have to behave in this way so that you become a good daughter in law. And we don't teach a son to be in a particular way
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:47
Hey, I hope you're doing good and thank you so much for applying on my swell. I hope you like it. And yes, you and I hope that things are getting normal these days. But yes, it's just a very few population that is actually okay with these trends. And mostly what happens, especially in DC household, what actually happens is that even if both parents work, they get a family pressure from grandparents or maybe from the relatives
CHANDRITA DAS
@Chandrita · 0:42
Very well said until this is actually a very serious uncertainty till now in the 21st century, some people feel that the duty of women is to take care of children and the each at once in the house. And it's the men's duty to earn, even sometimes it's the problem when woman earns more than men in her house. Our Indian Constitution talks about the right of e equality, but everywhere system equality has no meaning
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:31
Hello. Thank you so much for replying. And yes, that our Constitution does mention about rightwing quality, but yes, that even in, even today, in 21st century, where everything is like, like Westernizing and things are changing, but still there are places where girls are not treated properly. So I think the situation changes soon. And thank you so much for applying to me as well. I keep listening
Both parents should be involved in their child's wellbeing and education. Anything less is someone failing at being a parent. This comes up with people don't teach boys how to be emotionally available. It's a side effect of a number of things. Being emotionally unavailable to you off the spring is a problem. Men. Learn not to let other people's assumptions and desires cut you off from your children. Teach your children. Play with them. If you don't have them
Aanchal saluja
@aanchalsaluja · 0:35
Hello. Thank you so much for replying. And yes. And not just only parenting, there are things that men have to step forward for. It. You know, it's like when a woman comes off from an office and, you know, she's expected to Cook, feed herself family. And it's just like we expect them to be in this way. But it's not that if she's cooking for you, it's not her duty. It's not her responsibility